No offense, but what part about having kids is beautiful?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i have only ever heard cons in having kids and basically no pros, only ”you’ll have someone to take care of u” like, can u name one reason to want kids without it being a selfish reason?

[Anonymous]

Having a child is the most selfless thing a person could ever do. Its devoting your life to giving everything to another person.(obviously some bad parents dont do that.) a lot of people won't understand it until they experience it themselves but the deep unconditional love you have for your child is what makes it so beautiful

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok so tell me a reason u had kids without it having to do with you.

[Opinion Owner]

To give them life. Its the greatest gift someone could ever be given. Obviously a lot of peope walk around being ungrateful about it tho

[chocolatetwopointo]

u seem like ur in a hippie cult, nothing good with this earth

[chocolatetwopointo]

if anything its selfish having a kid in such a terrible world

[KateCrombie]

Some people say it’s a beautiful feeling to become parents and bring someone in this world… but honestly i don’t see anything good…. Besides, it is also bad for the child to bring him/her. in this cruel world

[chocolatetwopointo]

true, and you know what i heard? that we evolved into thinking birth isn't that hard (after giving birth) so that we would have more babies? we basically gaslighted ourselves into thinking its a good thing

[KateCrombie]

Exactly

[Zforce194]

I can tell you probably are having a hard time finding someone who will make a baby with you. Or you probably want to trap a man with a child or you just want a child so you can get child support from the daddy. I can tell you probably will be a single mother with several children from several men

[Anonymous]

Do you have fondness or appreciation for any of your immediate family members?

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[Opinion Owner]

Do you like or enjoy the company of any brothers, sisters, mothers, or fathers?

If the answer is yes, then that's one reason to have kids. It often fosters love, companionship, someone you know you can count on, and a plethora of other things.

[PaleDale]

Love for them

[chocolatetwopointo]

how? whats there to love ab a little gremlin that only cries and shits?

[jamesgoldman]

No idea