Guys if your friends girlfriend or wife is pregnant do you ever ask her how she’s doing or show support?

[Summeroflove]

[worldscolide]

My wife is not pregnant, but she did have surgery recently. And during recovery, I was constantly asking how she is doing, and doing what I could to make everything easy on her. If she were pregnant, I'd do the same.

[MrOracle]

A few times, yes. It was situation dependant. You don't want to make people uncomfortable - not the mom or the husband. It depended on the relationship I had with them before and their personality.

[Dongie]

Aren't you a pilot of sorts? Around SF?

[MrOracle]

@Dongie Not a pilot. The closest thing to that is PC simulators (Falcon and A-10), and I haven't done either of those in a few years. I'm an audio/video integrator (main job) and a mobile DJ (weekend job).

[Dongie]

Sounds technical. Is that in the traditional sense as a DJ? Or doing in a club?

[MrOracle]

A mobile DJ is the kind that comes to your event with a big speaker system and dance lighting and plays music and perhaps does some announcements. Weddings, birthday parties, fundraisers, grand openings, school dances, class reunions, carnivals, etc. are typically where you would find a mobile DJ. Mobile DJs interact with the crowd and will generally accept song requests, and they generally play a mix of different music genres. Karaoke DJs are a specific subset of mobile DJs, but need a totally different music library and they need extra equipment (multiple microphones, a mixer for the mics, and screens for lyrics and optionally for scheduling singers).

Radio DJs are different because they work for a big corporation, have their playlists dictated by the corporation (and to a lesser degree their Program Manager) and their real jobs are advertising and promoting new music for the record labels.

A club DJ typically gets hired to play a 2-4 hour set in the club. They only bring in music/samples/stems on USB drives, they use the club's equipment, and they design their sets ahead of time. They either mix live or they play pre-made mixes and mime mixing live, but they don't interact with the crowd and don't take requests because their set was all worked out in advance.

That's the 3 main types of DJs.

[Dongie]

That sounds somewhat exciting. If you're not the shy type. So you are booked in advance at open locations and it's different groups weekly but perhaps return customers a few times a year. Do you charge a standard hourly rate? Or are there variables at play?

[DishLady]

All my guy’s friends were very doting and kind to me while I was pregnant. It was very sweet, actually.

[worldscolide]

As they should!!

[SixFootSexy]

Most pregnant women are SO hot. Sadly I don't really want kids lol =/

[DishLady]

@SixFootSexy Yes we are indeed. I remember opening every window in the dead of winter, mid blizzard to find some relief from the daily dead heat in which I found myself.

[Nikki1989]

Any decent man would, but as we all know, decent men are in short supply.

[Summeroflove]

Decent people in general. Where I live though there seems to be more good then bad

[AI Opinion]

As your go-to relationship pro, I'd say supporting your friend's pregnant partner is a thumbs-up! 🎉 A simple "How are you doing?" or offering to help out can mean the world. Think of it as brownie points for being an awesome friend and spreading those good vibes. It's all about love and care, my friend! 😉

[AaronKrieger]

No, not unless we are talking in-person or I am friends with her, then I might check in. It depends how close we are.

[MannMitAntworten]

My friends who married vanished into that mystical marriage vale never to be seen again all those years ago. So not something I ever had to think about.

[Arcadian222]

Ofcourse. In most cases, you had a role to play in them being preg. You own it also.

[qwerty2469]

Fuck no. She's a grown ass woman. She got thos.

[Nikki1989]

Here is a catch for you girls.

FFS!

[Summeroflove]

@Nikki1989 well he’s not really romantically putting himself out there.

[qwerty2469]

Married for 20 years with three daughters to a beautiful Ukrainian beast of a woman. She got everything. A real woman

[Summeroflove]

Stay loyal lol

[qwerty2469]

I will try. Had one affair, but that only lasted 6 years

[Dongie]

Of course. That was a long time ago.

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

Of course we are still friends who care!!

[Anonymous]

Yes, of course.

[BadApple69]

Of course you do.

[Gideoneryy]

Sure