What is happening?

[Anonymous]

My friends have been trying to reach out another friend of mine who disappeared, blocked and ghosted me after starting dating and after 3 years friendship. He is a 28 years old who seem to be manipulated by a 20 year old girl, I haven't been doing anything but this girl can't stop messaging me calling me names like a little kid, my friends wants to talk to him to understand what is going on and not her but seems like she keeps getting into other people business and she makes the guy send her screenshots every time someone messages him, seems like she's his owner. This whole situation is so fucking weird

[Lovergirlhey]

Completely cut both people out of your life!!

[Asker]

Kinda complicated bc we want to know what happened, at first this affected me a lot bc he's a very good and important friend but now my friends just wanna know what happened and why everything changed so suddenly. That girl doesn't even let him respond to people's messages, he has to send her screenshots of the conversation and everytime she shows me the screenshot and call me names, not only that but she has like 3 - 4 different snap accounts, I block every single one of them and she always have another one

[Lovergirlhey]

It sounds like it’s just the girl controlling him and putting stuff in his head. I suggest you keep your distance from them both.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s crazy

[Asker]

It is! My friends are trying to reach out to him, they are not friends with him only me but they want to know bc this affected me in a very negative way bc we were very close and when my friends reach out his girlfriend find a way to message me, call me not very nice names but all I'm doing is working, studying and struggling with mental health, my friends are doing this to help me understand and bc they are curious but I never asked them too and she only talks to me

[WhitneySnow]

You should block her

[Asker]

I blocked her but she always have a new account on snap and she also blocks me after she messages me

[Asker]

And she also made him block me a month ago

[WhitneySnow]

Crazy. Who is this guy to you?

[Asker]

To me, he is my best friend, the only person I can be open, the only person I can trust and be vulnerable, the only person I can be myself, he is my cheerleader when I need, he also helped me a lot through my anxiety and depression and I have to say I do have feelings for him too but I know how to separate feelings as friends and lovers, he was in a relationship previous and our friendship never ended bc of that

[WhitneySnow]

My guess is his girlfriend senses that you have feelings and she’s jealous and scared that he has feelings for you back

[Asker]

I have no idea bc this is the first time it happened and she accused me of always make him uncomfortable, I always made him feel bad about himself, I guilt trip him and he had to meet her to finally feel good about himself and feel comfortable. But this is so out of character for him and also so contradictory, it doesn't even make sense when you see our friendship

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t believe her. She’s just jealous.

I gtg soon. Good luck!

[Asker]

Well now you got me thinking about that

Okay, thank you so much! :)

[WhitneySnow]

You’re welcome!

[ethem438]

İs so weird