What is happening?

[Anonymous]

So there is this guy who I have been liking for nearly two years and somehow we started talking and meeting but from past few weeks I feel ki somehow he is distancing himself from me we aren't chatting frequently as we used to and he's been avoiding to meet me even though it was his idea to meet I really want to know what's happening?

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I started feeling that it's all one sided

[Anonymous]

Look, its my opinion but I think that he might be into you and thats why he might be nervous, yk or anxious to meet you, doesn't know how to pluck up th courage and confess his feelings to you. I am telling this cause I have been in your situation before, I was too fast to judge him and assumed that he doesn't like me or dont wanna hang out with me and all but no, I found out later that it was the complete opposite and he was just way too nervous cause he had a thing foe me and all, so dont immediately assume the negative, maybe he needs some time or if that is not the case then maybe he is really busy or just doesn't like ya anymore ig.

[Asker]

Thank you so much it really helped

[Opinion Owner]

xoxo

[Asker]

Can i also ask u few other questions

[Opinion Owner]

Yes sure!

[Asker]

It's like this it was me who confessed first through a letter and it took him nearly a month to contact me and we met for 3-4 times but he didn't ever mention wt he was feeling I asked him once about wts he feeling he said when the tym comes I will tell u but he didn't tell me yet and recently I am feeling like I am being played and all kind of negative stuff wt do u think is happening?

[Opinion Owner]

Have ya seen him talking to or being friendly with other girls? If he is really making you wait like that, then he is not worthy of you. You dont have all the time in this world, right? just to wait for someone who cannot even take firm decisions or dont have the courage to tell the truth and face consequences. Tell him, you dont have time to wait and run after him aimlessly, and ask him to tell the truth. If even after that things remain the same, then trust me, stop goin after him

[Asker]

I don't know whether he talks with other girls or not but as u said I have to make it clear with him thanks for the advice tho

[Opinion Owner]

Sure!