What is happening?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend would get mad and have an attitude or ignore me when I talk about stuff that he did or said that hurt me or gets me upset and he also gets upset when I come to the conclusion to not talk about it or ask about it…idk what to think…what is he doing or what’s the problem

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You’re right

[teamvic]

What's happening is he doesn't like being the bad guy and gets mad when you tell him something that he's doing wrong, he gets offended. If you ask me you should leave cause he ain't ever gone change

Cause what will happen is over time, to prevent arguments is you're just gonna stop telling him what he's doing wrong and then he's gonna keep doing said things that's bothering you and now you're unhappy cause he throws a tantrum when you voice your problems to him. Then you're gonna spend more time with him for a while till one day you get sick of it and break up with him and then you're gonna be mad you wasted all that time being in a relationship with such a childish mu fucka... But what do I know.

[Asker]

You make sense.. thank you

[Asker]

It’s just weird how he’d tell me to tell him how I feel then act like that

[teamvic]

I always say everybody wants the truth until the truth isn't what they want to hear

And that seems to be the case for him. He'll say it," oh yeah babe tell me what's bothering you" but what he really means is " tell me what's bothering you, unless it's about me then you're taking it too far" which obviously you're not, it's great that you communicate but unfortunately you don't have a significant other that can match you when it comes to that

[Asker]

You’re right