Would this bother you if someone stayed at your house?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I'm staying at a cousin house with my mom for a bit and I honestly don't understand how my cousin can stand having us over.

My mom went to use the dryer, there's 5000 dryer sheets in here... And I know they weren't there before because I loaded it. I don't know when she went down there to "finish the job" but half a box of bounce was in there. I had to make a second trip to pick all of them up off the floor.

She just leaves crushed water bottles all over. We walked in with Chinese food the other day, she left her chopsticks on the counter.

My cousin and his wife are neat FREAKS. Its the most immaculate house I've ever been in. It's so clean here I haven't even slept in the sheets. I just lift up the comforter because I have no idea how to make the bed the way they did it. It looks better than when you go to a hotel.

My mom and I were at Walmart today she goes "you think they sell sake here?" I'm like at Walmart?

She goes "*I drank all their sake, I'm just gonna get wine" and she picks up a random bottle off the corner shelf like it was a box of donuts.

The first day we got there his wife shows us where she wanted us to put our shoes and instead of leaving them there, she always places them at the foot of the steps so that of you turn left too quickly they go flying across the house.

Am I crazy or is this just blatantly disrespectful of someone's home.

I'm not saying she's doing anything crazy I know I'm just really timid at other people's places and plenty of people will do stuff like... Actually no I don't think I'd let any of this shit slide 😂 am I just a grouch?

[spartan55]

Dude some of this was funny, some of it cringe. Have you tried talking to your
Mom about it? I was spending the night at friend's pretty frequently growing up and how to be a good house guest was drilled into my head. It seemed to work because I was always welcomed back.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

You can't really talk to her about anything you should have seen the ordeal trying to find a bar today. I've never felt so much like anything I do is wrong in my life. 😂 then she was like can you find a target and we're in north Carolina, everything is 30-45 minutes away so I'm like

"do you want the target that's close or one on the way home"

She's like what does that mean? You're not making any sense

I just had to tell her to find the target herself at that point I needed to go outside and pray.

[spartan55]

Oh my... I feel for ya brother.

[OneViewpoint]

You are fine. Your mom is an idiot. When I go to someone else's home I try to pick up on their lifestyle and their rules and follow suit accordingly. To not do that is rude, ungrateful, and almost guarantees you'll never be invited back. Be a gracious host. And be a grateful guest.

[douride2]

If it was my cousin & his mom. That would make her my aunt. I would politely ask them to please leave. OR at the very least clean up after yourself & never invite you back again. In reality you should have a chat with your mother.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I don't know how... Nobody does.

[queenofcardio]

The water bottles all over is definitely annoying.. Some of the other stuff , I'd probably let slide and fix it myself.

I'd talk to her if it gets worse of if your cousin points it out.

[RingOfFire]

Sounds like your Mom has no manners or respect for your cousin's family and that your cousin's family is being generous and tolerant.

[LiamJHayden]

My friends stay over frequently. Does not bother me.

[Staximus]

Tell your mom to clean up after herself, she's not a child

[NathanDavis]

what we do for family...