Was I wrong for being upset at my friend for being way too competitive, screaming and cussing at me?

[Anonymous]

So I went to my friends house last weekend and we always have a great time together right. We’ve been friends for about 20 years and we’re 29. We’re both autistic. She needs support and can’t stay home by herself and I’m well more independent, can stay and go out to places on my own. Anyways we we’re playing a ham and you know how best friends rag, roast and tease each other right? Well we both were at it roasting each other and this girl is WILD. She is feisty, blunt and can roast the crap outta you but in a friendly way. She was like, “Show off!” When I was winning every game. I just laughed it off. She kept raging on me and called me a show off and I can’t win when she roasts me. She was like, “You need to stop winning! You thing you’re all that just because you’re in university. Get OUT OF MY WAY SO I CAN SCORE A SCORE!!!” she shoved me. Then she said, “BEAT THAT COLLEGE GIRL!” Whoooo she is not always nice. Then I scored and she was like, “I don’t know who you are anymore!! You’re giving me gray hair right now yiu BITCH! JUST STOP IT!! I don’t wanna play with you ANYMORE! She put her controller down and walked away and slammed the door. WTF? This was new! I didn’t say anything or bragged about winning. I was just. Here for a good time.
Her mother was like what is going on and my bestie said she was just messing with me and giving me a hard time. Then I walked out and said, “What the hell was that about? Then she said, “See that’s your problem, YOU can’t take a joke!! I was KIDDING GOSH! This is why you’re not fun YOU LOUSY BITCH!! GET WITH IT!!!”

Then her mom scolded at her was enough and she was not being a good friend by talking to me that way I mean best friends do mock and kid with each other but she was taking it too far and she need to take a break. She stormed off. I understand she’s autistic and she’s not typical, but neither am I. I’m still very upset with her and she still hasn’t apologize. I just went home Saturday evening.

[ohsheeT]

Well, that was yesterday today's today. So what did you guys both learn

You're both close, you both have fun together, but you can't play games that have that type of competition in it because, you know, there's always going to be somebody that sandoz, so it has to be a quieter game of sort if you guys want to remain friends because clearly It goes beyond competition , so I would try to figure out different games you can play

No, you're not being wrong on anything you do I mean, you're going to treat people the way they treat you, it's called mirroring. And that's what happens. That's what happens in competition, so you have to find games that is not so much competition, maybe more of a art form or just something that you could both have fun and with. No, you did the right thing. I mean, you probably went above and beyond of doing the right thing in different ways. No I would be proud of you if I was you.. cause you could have taken it a whole different way too.

[DryGermanGuy]

Amazing storytelling, again! But why are the body measurements missing?

[Anonymous]

She sounds like she was definitely in the wrong

[Danny_dan92]

Just a bunch of immature behavior

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t mind joking around but she went too far.