How can I protect my wellbeing when my sister flirts with my partner?

[Anonymous]

she isn't attracted to her husband and doesn't get along with him. she told me that she thinks my partner has a good looking jawline and notice his looks. she turns my parents agiasnt me and my relationship with them fails everytime time she comes by. and my partner is also kinda into my sister. he doesn’t really appreciate me in that way but our relationship still continues. my parents dont have the best parenting skills in how to deal with each kid. they just yell at me when she comes by and its without a reason.

what should i do to preserve my wellbeing if my sister does come for a visit?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Tell her she can’t come over because she pushes boundaries with your husband and it makes you uncomfortable and regardless of if it’s the truth or because of your insecurities, it’s still YOUR house and YOU decide who comes in or doesn’t.

[Unycorn]

Mean. Tell her not to do it. How can she does? And to her sister? I can not imagine.

[MasterKS]

@unycorn Its not new.

[jahaims]

Your partner should be the one shutting down any flirting that comes their way

[MasterKS]

Ready to file a divorce before you catch them fucking.

[Asker]

she is 8 years older than him and has 3 kids. im only two years older than him

[MasterKS]

@asker she must be seductive.

[MasterKS]

@asker Thank you for MHO!

[Mariogirl09]

Stand up for yourself

[LC75LC71]

I doubt even Netflix would buy this story..

[Asker]

yeah it sounds totally ridiculous but apparently its true.

[Asker]

it weired and doesn’t even make any sense but yeah its taking my night of sleep away.

[LC75LC71]

Apparently? That's like calling the accused guilty without trial. I still think you're embellishing what's actually going on..

[Asker]

i just don’t know how to react anymore. my parents acts weird. sister is mean and my parents have shitty parenting skills. i just don’t how to deal with this.

[Asker]

Partner acts weired *