Should I stay friends with him after my breakup with her?

[InTheShadow]

My girlfriend broke up with me at 2 am per text, I see her every single day talking to my friend. They’ve been friends even when we were together, but haven’t known each other before our relationship. Now my friend talks to me in other way, he’s colder, angrier, is distancing himself from me, but between every single class he’s talking with her, they’re laughing, like we were before we broke up. What do I do now? Should I be friends with him?
We’re both in high school, so we see each other every day, and we will for a year.

[Jeff51]

Be friends. You live once but try to find a new girlfriend when your ready.

[InTheShadow]

We broke up like a month ago, and it hurts so much, that I won’t be able to date before finishing school

[Jeff51]

Thank you for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode messy feelings and spot red flags without losing your mind.

Your friend is emotionally checking out of the friendship and low‑key choosing her side. That hurts, and it’s a red flag. Stay civil, but don’t chase him. Protect your peace, focus on school, hobbies, and people who actually show up for you.

You don’t need enemies, but you also don’t need fake friends.

[Abbycado]

You’re nineteen and in high school?

[InTheShadow]

No, I’m 17, but this app doesn’t allow people so young

[Abbycado]

It allows users as young as 13, lol.

[InTheShadow]

In the settings I don’t see the option to change this

[Anonymous]

Yes, I believe so.