Do you haveprejudices about people before getting to know them? And can you really know someone without getting close to them, just by your intuition?

[PolarPoint]

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[InknKink]

I judge everyone at multiple stages in any given relationship; friend, romantic, work, casual, etc. And as far as early judgments... I'm always wrong.

Some of the people I've initially hated the most, due to forced circumstances, ended up becoming the people I liked and trusted the most. And vice versa.

The scenario always becomes whether or not someone is deemed worthy or necessary of pushing past the shit in order to learn the truth.

My experiences thus far in life is that the truth is pretty much always the opposite of the immediately obvious.

The people you hate and who treat others the worst, if you can gain an understanding and trust, those are the ones who will go through hell and high water for you. While the ones who immediately appear trustworthy and genuine, those are the ones who hide a dagger behind their backs.

It's easy to be good when being good is easy but only through pain and fire will you learn the truth of a persons worth. And we all hide our pain while suffering in the shadows.

[Bklynbadboy12]

You can have an opinion from you intuition but you'll never know them cause the only way to know someone it to spend time with them. And I never judge a book by it's cover

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I trust my gut in a majority of situations. I won’t deny I likely do have prejudiced against certain groups of people, but those groups are not usually seen visibly. So I usually wait until something is brought up in conversation to see how I feel and if they align themselves with that group

[PolarPoint]

What kind of topic do you mean :)

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Usually political stuff. I’m willing to find a middle ground if they are

[PolarPoint]

That's interesting.

[Iwantthatyeah]

I can’t really know people at first, so I make friends as much as possible. I keep my relationship with them until I see any bad behavior (toward me or others). I observe them for about six months, and if everything goes well during that time, I trust them completely.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Prejudices yes certainly. I can't help it, it's not in a mean way though. Usually not.

No I can't legitimately know someone just from intuition, I believe no one can. Because I think that people are complicated even when they look like they aren't. It's not easy to resist temptation though.

[PolarPoint]

While everything in the universe is based on science and logic, how can we accept intuitions that are not based on logic as true? and yeah , you are right :D

[ohsheeT]

Well if we know each other then you can't help to know them

We Are All Made of energy and we all have a 16-ft aura all around us and in that aura you can feel people's energy and it will tell you a lot about them the deeper you feel that energy the more it says and then you look into their eyes and it tells you even more

[NathanDavis]

no, I don't do prejudice...

my "instincts" and "intuition" are very perceptive yes, but even with that... I won't just assume or go by it, I still need and do make sure sure sure... that I first to get to know someone better, lol

[Nikki1989]

Sometimes it is obvious that someone is not for you.

[PolarPoint]

Can you guarantee 100% . :) What if you are missing something good for you?