What’s your future parent plan for your child? (if/when you have one)?

[MusicTokuXX]

If I have a daughter, I’ll make her an idol so i won’t have to worry about her just hooking up with a random boy.. also she’ll be way better off too

[SueShe]

Definition of the word "idol":

"a person or thing that is greatly admired, loved, or revered".

Now, popular members of music groups are considered as idols by their fans. If you have a female that is being idolized by fans, can you just imagine how many opportunities she will have to fornicate with just about any of her fans?

Is that really what you want for your child? Well then, good luck making her an idol. You will be responsible for what happens to her and will achieve just the opposite of what your intention was.

Not really a nice perspective for her, is it?

[MusicTokuXX]

This sounds like such an Ai bot response. I was talking about Kpop Idols. Also they don’t date fans. They don’t have such freedom anyway

Wdym fornicate?

[SueShe]

definition of the term "fornicate"

"have sexual intercourse with someone one is not married to."

[MusicTokuXX]

No idol does that tho. Unless they’re the scandalous type

[SueShe]

You are from the US according to your bio and to be from K-Pop, you need to be Korean and furthermore, 99.9% of those dreaming to be in K-Pop will not make it. What makes you so sure your (future) daughter has what it takes?

Also, mentalities change and what you claim does not happen with Korean girls is far from being certain in 20 years from now. At the rate our civilization is becoming decadent, copulating with fans is more something that is going to be the rule than the exception.

[MusicTokuXX]

? No you don’t have to be Korean. Many Kpop idols aren’t Korean. I can immediately tell you’re not a Kpop Fan

Also the fact that “from the U. S” automatically means not Korean means you haven’t gotten out much.
I am talented at singing, i hope my future kid is too.

[SueShe]

Hope always dies last. Good luck.

[RRT_7511]

Personally i wouldn’t want kids in the future because of the overwhelming responsibilities. If i were to have kids i’d probably adopt a teenager in my 40s or something and invest in their mental-physical health and education (they can be anything they want to)

[MusicTokuXX]

Kids nowadays have no idea what they want. Teenagers are too late to adopt. Because they already teenagers and reached puberty. Also why wouldn’t you want blood related kids? Why adoption?

If I adopted, i would adopt a newborn at like 30 and raise them

[RRT_7511]

Dude, i’ve known what i want since 5 years old and i worked my way up. Believe it or not a lot of kids do know what they want, if they don’t they have time to figure it out. We can’t force kids to follow the career we want them to follow, that just sounds like torture to me. Also yea teenagers can be more difficult to deal with but it’s not something i’m unfamiliar with considering i used to work with teenagers during my training.

I’d choose adoption over me or my partner popping out a kid, cuz personally i have health issues that are hereditary and i wouldn't want to pass it on plus i would probably off myself if i get pregnant, physically and mentally pregnancy is a death sentence for me (and also my partner, she has really bad gender dysphoria that would get much worse if she gets pregnant too). So yea, adoption is more sustainable for me.

[MusicTokuXX]

Most high school kids don’t know what they want. That’s why many of them do nothing productive after high school. And many of them online complain about their life and that it’s miserable and empty.

[RRT_7511]

Tbh forcing them to follow a career they hate won’t help. Therapy and going to career counseling might help tho

[MusicTokuXX]

And i meant, teenagers can’t be taught anymore. They’re rebellious, they act all grown up, they have their own personalities. It’s not raising a child anymore, it’s having younger sibling or something

[RRT_7511]

Tbh any child would have to go through the teenage stage, it’s not like something they can just skip. Plus in my opinion dealing with infants and toddlers is much worse, considering they can’t physically care for themselves and might cry 24/7

[MusicTokuXX]

God, you would make a terrible parent!

“Plus in my opinion dealing with infants and toddlers is much worse, considering they can’t physically care for themselves and might cry 24/7”

YEA? That’s how babies are! Tf is that?

“Tbh any child would have to go through the teenage stage, it’s not like something they can just skip.“

Yea but if you start at the infant stage, you can raise them. You can’t raise them anymore as a teenager. Teenagers can’t be raised or taught anymore as evident by today’s generation

[RRT_7511]

I don’t wanna have kids anyway so your opinion doesn’t matter because i already know i can’t handle raising kids lol Plus you’re no better shitting on teenagers in the orphanage system 😂

[RRT_7511]

And you think i’d be a terrible parent yet you want to make your daughter into a kpop idol against her will so she would lose all of her freedom and not even able to date anybody she wanna date (according to your explanation in the post and other comments of why you wanna do it).

[MusicTokuXX]

? Who wouldn’t want to be a celebrity? A Kpop idol is so well off! Freedom? Kpop idols have freedom! You don’t even know what you’re talking about!

“and not even able to date anybody she wanna date (according to your explanation in the post and other comments of why you wanna do it).”

Yea, she won’t be able to just date anyone she wants. Most people date willy nilly, breaking up, hurting, fights. Like…

[RRT_7511]

Well i don’t wanna be a kpop idol, most people i know don’t and plenty of other people don’t wanna be one either. You can’t just assume everybody want to be in the spotlight for the rest of their life.

Also in relating to freedom, quote be quote you wrote in another comment “ I was talking about Kpop Idols. Also they don’t date fans. They don’t have such freedom anyway”.

Also you think celeb couples don’t break up all the time? You think that they don’t argue and fight?

[MusicTokuXX]

I meant they can’t just date whoever tf they want. Celebrities don’t just date willy nilly. But normal people do. Especially teenagers to early adulthood

[RRT_7511]

Define a willy nilly? Plus trial and error is part of life, you can’t expect your kids to be perfect