Why did my mom react so harshly when I shared my depression?

[Anonymous]

I told my mom that I decided to step down from my full time job to part time. I shared with her that I feel like I wasted 3 years of my life and that God should just kill me. She kicked me out of her room and said I should go to hell. She said I just want to stress her out and that she has cholesterol.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for life it isn’t easy but on the other hand it isn’t hard. On the road of life it’s going to throw some many things your way & some of those things you aren’t going to be ready for & some of those things you are. On the road of life we all hits bumps. On the road of life we all get flat tires. On the road of life we all run out of gas. On the road of life we all need an oil change. On the road of life we all run into yellow lights. On the road of life we all run into red lights. On road of life a green light is a good thing & on the road of life when life light is green the only way to move is forward.

In life some people have a lot of their plate & in life some people have a buffet. As for you it’s time for you to face the sunshine & let the shadows cast behind you. As for you it’s time for you to turn that frown upside down & get your shit together.

As for your mother she will always be your mother. As for your mother she may not always be right & as for your mother she may not alway be wrong. As for your mother I’m sure she wants the best for you & as for your mother you may not hear it all the time but she loves you & as for you treasure your mother & treasure the time you have with her because life is short & who knows what tomorrow may bring.

As for you it’s time for you to put your big girl panties on. As for you it’s time for you to get your shit together & get the fuck out of the house if you are living with family & get a place of your own. As for you you’re going to have to make some changes. As for you you’re going to have to get to the bottom of this bucket of clams call depression & talk to someone & overcome what is really bothering you.

As for a job a job is a job & as for you by the time you are 35 you don’t want to have a job you want to have a career. Part time right now is not the answer unless you are rich of find someone rich who will support your ass. You need to be making money working full time with health benefits, a future & more.

As for the working world it sucks but we all have to do it in order to survive.

Start setting short term & long term goals & start achieving those goals.

You Got This Girl! You can do it! Going find your smile!

Static~

[Master_Debator]

Holy fuck... so your Mom took your situation and just made it all about her real quick.

To answer your question... She a narcissist. You hating the job or your situation is besides the point for her... the real point is how you're making her life harder.

Don't buy into that bullshit. You're the one that has to go to that job and it's obviously dragging you down... it makes me want to ask if she's getting financial gain from your struggle, but that's none of my business... It wouldn't surprise me though if the answer was yes.

To be blunt... your Mom looks at your suffering or troubles as a problem for herself. Her concern is for herself and just herself. You not just doing what you were doing and pretending to be happy with it is the problem for her.

I think you should analyze how much this woman has played a part in why you're so unhappy. You did all that work... where did the money go? I'm just guessing she is a major part why your hard work and effort feels fruitless.

[StephanieChick111]

Hmm, yeah that is not the kind of things moms want to hear. They want you to be happy and married to a rich man. But your mom sounds a little crazy. DM if you want.

[PolarPoint]

Damnn , Mothers shouldn't interfere with children. Just reading your question made me uncomfortable I wish you luck, you will need. I think you have nowhere to run.

[Tomislav7]

Thats hardcore mine told me she wished she aborted me which is funny how blind she is. "hey mom girls treat me like shit and I don't know y" "Its all in your head, you need help, or I've heard this story a million times i dont care" but then turns around saying "I fucking hate your behaviors, you're ruining my life, i want you dead"

[Agape93]

Some parents just don't care. Mine don't and never did.

[Jeff51]

To young to be stressed out. Today's general sucks.