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Naturally I am direct with no filters. I really don’t have any problems to tell anyone where to go…! I am naturally a savage, but as I grow older I soften up. My tongue has cost me a lot, a lot is just by simple ignorance, and my limited perception of reality. I don’t socialize much, so I am a bit disconnected.
I am trying to know people and interact with them with all their BS. I found myself being more dishonest with myself, telling sample lies to make them feel good about themselves, while they have no problem dissing me out.
It’s exhausting, I am biting my tong, correcting my face a little more often. I am trying not to be the one saying the last word, immediately they decide ight I have enough of you here, it was my green light to go!
If I don’t pretend it’s more likely to be worst for me than it’s wrong for them…! Truthfully I don’t like people.
I am trying to know people and interact with them with all their BS. I found myself being more dishonest with myself, telling sample lies to make them feel good about themselves, while they have no problem dissing me out.
It’s exhausting, I am biting my tong, correcting my face a little more often. I am trying not to be the one saying the last word, immediately they decide ight I have enough of you here, it was my green light to go!
If I don’t pretend it’s more likely to be worst for me than it’s wrong for them…! Truthfully I don’t like people.
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People tend to seek out people who are like themselves. Nothing personal, but the image you paint of your self is a jerk. And, it sounds like the people you meet mirror that vibe.
Try being honest and kind and assume the other person is the same. You will likely have better experiences.
I guess my question is after that, do you really care about or want to socialize that much if you hate people? Be yourself, don't bite your tongue and I think you'll attract the people who are most likely like yourself that you might actually like
I pause and think how I would feel if someone said to me what I want to say to them and also if whatever it is is important enough to risk the relationship over.
That’s the part I sorta play ignorant, bite my tong, and pretend I don’t understand; and I just wish, I can’t even given give look that I wish…! It consumes me sometimes!
That’s the part I sorta play ignorant, bite my tong, and pretend I don’t understand; and I just wish, I can’t even give the ** look that I wish…! It consumes me sometimes!
I think what you are describing is how most people feel. We can't just say how we really feel or we would not have friends or a job.
Ooh that’s 85% of my reality!
The more you practice it, the more it may become second nature, to the point where saying blunt things may not even cross your mind in most situations.
Stay home. Nobody likes a buzzkill kind of person.
lol! I am actually the the total opposite. You wouldn’t even tell that I am not enjoying it. I am sorta lively!
Crazy! The older I get the less filter I have.
If someone hates people, why would they want to socialize?
Yup I don’t want to, but not wanting to be around people doesn’t help with networking
You probably don't.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/pedkWRWx_B0I don’t unless I have to
Don’t go out?
Sorta do! I do go out but I don’t actually want to stay in touch with anyone I met.