Why do people say they want the truth but really want comfort instead?

[MissSunshine2]

Why not just say they want comfort rather than honesty?

[WhitneySnow]

Because the truth is seen as something you’re supposed to want, but in reality most people only want it when it makes them happy

You’re autistic. Most people aren’t as blunt as you and want to pretend that they really value the truth. Sorry to be so blunt myself, but it’s true. That’s why most people say they want the truth but really want comfort.

[Still-alive]

They wanna seem like they can take it but really can't

[Nikki1989]

It is a fundamental conflict between psychological survival mechanisms and logical ideals. People want the sugarcoat version. I have pissed many people off by simply being too honest.

[Ironco]

What she said. Same here.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some people say one thing & they really mean another & when it comes to the truth some people can’t handle the truth & they’re too embarrassed to admit they really want comfort instead.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

People do want the truth as long it fits their personal values and narrative and worldview.

Truths that don't fit their personal narrative irritates their ego and pride thus they reject it.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause people say they want the truth but most can't handle the truth

[sage2021]

Maybe they don't even know WHAT they want.

[NathanDavis]

that's what confusion does to people

[ashish804]

It's human nature i guess