Should I warn my married friend about a flirty coworker at work?

[Anonymous]

So she’s been at this company for little less than a year and lately this guy coworker who I know been always tryin to talk to her I personally don’t get along with him so he don’t ever speak to me unless work related …. Anyways she’s my to go person and we always talk to each other he been talking to her a lot and she’s married so I’m little worried for her she says they just friends but he litteraly the first thing early in the morning makes his way to her right away and will talk for hours especially when it’s slow should I tell her something or watch in discomfort where this all will end in?

[choco-latte]

I guess nothing wrong with telling her that you’re doubtful about his intentions and not to be careful around him, if she’s your friend.

[Asker]

Not to be careful?

[choco-latte]

Sorry I meant to be careful. Just not to trust him too much and keep an eye on him.

[Asker]

Yea well he always come up to her

[MartinKlingac]

Be careful how you approach it so it doesn’t backfire on you. If she says they're just friends, just gently hint at your concerns once, and then let her handle her own marriage

[Asker]

Wym by back firing on me

[Asker]

Been hinting little more than once she keeps saying that’s my little friend

[jahaims]

You realize she has to flirt back/cheat for it to be an issue

[Asker]

She called him a flirt type of man who flirts wihh the others

[Asker]

But the fact that he keeps approaching her and always in her face

[Nikki1989]

What is to be gained by saying something?

[Asker]

Maybe she will
Listen

[Abbycado]

Yeah, you should tell her.

[Asker]

Been telling her says he
Just my little friend

[MasterKS]

Just let them enjoy their life, why you bother?

[Asker]

At this point I don’t other I don’t consider her a friend anymore

[Asker]

Bother…

[MasterKS]

@asker that good, let them enjoy as they want. LOL

[Asker]

Just the fact that me and her became close friends at work but if he wanna steal her away from me let him

[MasterKS]

@asker all he wants to fuck her, let him, you can't fuck her. be mature. LOL

[Asker]

Been telling her that

[Asker]

She’s much older than him by like 9 years

[Asker]

And likes her petite body

[MasterKS]

@asker he must enjoy her than. age won't matters.

[Asker]

Hahaha oh really

[MasterKS]

@asker you dont know what men want? LOL

[Asker]

Definitely do I think she may be stupid than

[MasterKS]

@asker did i followed you? if not will love to. why you think she is stupid?

[Asker]

Maybe she don’t know

[MasterKS]

@asker you are anon, i want to follow you, can we?

[Asker]

No thank you

[MasterKS]

@asker LMAO you afraid to show your identity?

[WhitneySnow]

Tell her

[Asker]

Had done

[WhitneySnow]

Good! How’d it go?

[Asker]

Bad!!!

[WhitneySnow]

I think I’ve heard this story before. She told you to mind your own business. It’s possible she likes him and maybe is unhappy in her marriage.