What’s the reason you would have kids?

[MUSICTOKU099125]

I want kids to leave something behind. A legacy. Because my life is shit and far from memorable. I have so many dreams that I can’t even do now because I was born with medical conditions and chronic ones! So I’d probably adopt cuz my children inherit my medical conditions 50/50.

Also feeling like i have some kind of achievement in life will make me feel less depressed

[LazerBean]

If your life is shit, then why would you specifically want to pass on your shitty life to a child? What medical conditions do you even have?

My husband and I want kids because we love kids, because we can provide a happy life for them, and guide them into becoming good incapable adults which would benefit the world.

[LazerBean]

Good and capable *

[MUSICTOKU099125]

I was born with a rare genetic medical condition from my mom’s side. And a bunch of other medical problems. And why does it matter to you?

[MUSICTOKU099125]

I want kids to leave something behind. A legacy. Because my life is shit and far from memorable. I have so many dreams that I can’t even do now because i was born with medical conditions and chronic ones!

Also feeling like i have some kind of achievement in life will make me feel less depressed

[LazerBean]

That is so narcissist. You want to pass on your misery to your children just because you have nothing else to leave behind so they can be miserable like you?

[MUSICTOKU099125]

No? Why would i pass on misery? They would have a better life than i would ever

[MUSICTOKU099125]

I have nothing in life as well

[LazerBean]

How could they have a better life than yours when their father would have less to offer than yours and only be a burden to them?

[MUSICTOKU099125]

Because they would be normal! I got the short end of the stick when i was born. But i would know how to raise a good person.

[LazerBean]

They would not be normal, because they would be children to a father who does not provide for them, who cannot teach them work ethic, who cannot teach them financial literacy, and who cannot teach them how to act normal and likable. You are obviously a social outcast, and if they learn to behave like you then they will almost certainly be the same.

[MUSICTOKU099125]

? School teaches you most of that.

uh…i know how to raise a good person! Like don’t raise them to be like you for example; unlikable.

[MUSICTOKU099125]

Tv has also taught me everything i know

[MUSICTOKU099125]

You don’t know shit about me so you cannot judge! Asshole!

[LazerBean]

School does not teach you that lmao you're just going to depend on others to raise your kid for you? That's child neglect.

[MUSICTOKU099125]

School teaches you finances, it’s called math class.

I failed that course.

I know how to raise good people.

[LazerBean]

If you think those are the same, then your kids are going to be stupid on top of being miserable, poor, and neglected

[MUSICTOKU099125]

You’re such a jerk ass!

[MUSICTOKU099125]

I grew up watching blues clues, Barney, Bear in the big blue house, Wiggles. etc and those awesome late 90s all the way to late 2000s kids shows.

[Anonymous]

For me, it would be because I genuinely wanted to raise a person, not because I felt pressured to have kids. ❤️

I'd want to experience that strange, beautiful journey of watching a little person develop their own personality, discover the world, make mistakes, and eventually become their own independent human being.

But I'd also be honest enough to say that having children is a huge responsibility. Love alone isn't the whole equation. You need patience, stability, time and a willingness to put someone else's needs ahead of your own sometimes. That's a big decision, not just a life milestone. 🥹❤️

[MUSICTOKU099125]

Raising a child is easier than dealing with another person because they don’t have trauma, or all that shit other people have.

[Opinion Owner]

I tried sending you a dm, your privacy won't let me

[MUSICTOKU099125]

I changed it, Try again

[NathanDavis]

ideally... if I marry, it will be for a family

so that's more the reason enough... a great gal, some kids... a nice family

[MUSICTOKU099125]

I probably won’t ever get married because nobody will want me so…I’ll adopt if it comes down to it

[NathanDavis]

don't adopt if you're depressed... they're not toys

[MUSICTOKU099125]

Ok? I need family. I am alone. I literally have no family.

[NathanDavis]

you need therapy

[MUSICTOKU099125]

You don’t know me! Why do i need therapy?

[NathanDavis]

you just mentioned you're depressed...

[MUSICTOKU099125]

Ok? Everyone is at some point. Life sucks

[MUSICTOKU099125]

Especially if you’re living my life

[NathanDavis]

and therapy does help with that

[MUSICTOKU099125]

How does therapy help at all?

[MUSICTOKU099125]

I’ve been to 3-4 psychiatrists in my life, they didn’t do anything

[NathanDavis]

well, that's what you go to... to find out how it can help you and your situation in specifc

[MUSICTOKU099125]

Again I’ve been to 3-4 psychiatrists in my life, they didn’t do anything

[NathanDavis]

psychiatrists and therapists are not the same though...

[MUSICTOKU099125]

How are they different? Either way you just talk, talking does nothing

[NathanDavis]

yeah, so go and do something...

therapy, for example

[MUSICTOKU099125]

WTF IS THERAPY SUPPOSED TO DO?

[MUSICTOKU099125]

YOU TELL ME SINCE YOU ARE THE ONE RECOMMENDING IT FOR SOME REASON

[andreasderjuengere]

The reason: they happened.

(they were welcome, though)