My son's father wants to see him every day but won't help financially—what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Best course of action is to split responsibility and make it as stable as possible. Week on/week off. You're responsible for the monetary cost when kid's with you, he's responsible for costs when kid's with him. All health related expenses are split equally provided they are mutually agreed upon. But understand there's boundaries to this setup, and anything outside of the agreed upon terms is subject to a "no".

[NoDecision]

In today's world kids can come back with dirty clothes, unwashed, fed nothing but peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and spend their whole time with dad playing video games, while doing no home work. So mom has her work cut out for herself when the kid/s come home.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Oh... didn't know that was mom's responsibility. Figured her job was to demand skating lessons 4 nights a week and to call him a shitty dad for saying it's excessive.

[NoDecision]

Well it seems both could be irresponsible parents.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

@NoDecision
I'd say that scratches the surface

[Nikki1989]

Rather than arguing about whether he deserves to see his son, focus on what your child needs.

[NoDecision]

Take him to court, but I don't think it is a good idea to refuse visitation.

[TonyMetal___1986]

So he needs to pay to see his own son? 😏
What if he doesn't have money?

Is it possible for a man to have money and not pay a dime for his son and still wanna see him everyday? Isn't it weird or what 🤔

[Anonymous]

Take him to court and deny him visitation in the meantime until he gets a court order (which he won’t without paying child support)

[Anonymous]

Sue him for child support.

[Pterodon]

You get court ordered child support