I just called him.
It's pretty early where he lives too
he's up. He hardly sleeps like me.
I've been strongly thinking of moving... a big move..
So he asked why I'm calling him so early,
I say I'm up but if you're not I'll call u later.
But what gets me is he's very interrogative and it doesn't make me feel anymore comfortable to answer his questions at that moment now honestly and on top of things he sounds i
like I annoy him.
It was dumb to even think to tell him i've been thinking of moving and if I go to this state would you visit me LOL
Guess I didn't think that through well enough
But his usual thing is "I dont wanna hear that bullshit"
When I literally told him I just wanted to talk. Maybe I would of came around to tell him...
He thinks i think everything is wrong? why can't I talk to my dad?
he's not one to sit on the phone to even listen to my problems or try to solve shit so why is he mad I'm coming to him just to talk casually? isn't that what he wants?
he's always trying to get me to open up about my issues yet calls them bullshit and how he doesn't want to hear it and always ends the call..
So to avoid that I aim to be casual and he doesn't even want that...
He gets mad I dont visit him, but does he not see why I dont go out my way to?
What's his deal?
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Nope. Don't say anything. It won't change anything and you won't feel better.
Eh. Kind of disagree. I will feel good. But is it worth hurting someone because they are literally incapable of giving me what I need
I dont think it's his fault
So I won't say nothing unless he asks
The reason I think you won't feel good is mid- and long term. You'll feel good in the moment but nothing will change. Which will leave you wanting in the future. And, yeah, the hurt thing. And the possibility of drama and argument. Our parents are like asbestos -- just don't disturb them and live around them.
I say try to mend the fence that divides the two of you, and see if that works.