My husband talks to his dad everyday? What should I do?

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My husband talks to his dad EVERYDAY and it insults me! He only lives an hour away and sees him once a week. I guess thats not enough because my husband will usually spend 15-20 minutes talking to his dad on the phone. A couple of times they talked for an hour. I always knew they were close, my husband made him the groomsman at our wedding. But this is pushing it. I am close to my mom, we live in the same city as well, but I don't talk to her everyday. I only see her once or twice a week.
I feel like this is straining our marriage because I want to spend as much time with my husband as I can. But I can't do this if he is always talking to his dad. It would be another story if they just texted or if his dad lived far away. But like I said, his dad only lives an hour away. ALL they do is talk an its really taking away precious time from my husband.
How can I convince him that talking to your dad everyday is NOT normal for a married man?
I'm about to throw his cell phone in the toilet.

SammyGurl · Accepted Answer

Sorry, but to be honest I think it's perfectly normal. The college we re both at is about three hours away from home, we probably see our parents once maybe twice a month. I'm fine when my husband calls his Dad, I even ask him to put it on speaker phone so I can join in on the conversation most of the time. We talk to his Dad and Mom and my Dad and Mom just about every day on the phone. We're both very close to both sets of parents, I'm not just a daughter in law I'm treated as a daughter my husband like a son. It's not like we need them to tell us what to do or how to solve every little issue, we just love and enjoy our families. Truthfully I wouldn't have married him if he wasn't!

ArabianPwincess197 · Accepted Answer

Are you like insecure of your father in law?
You've been married to him like what..3/4 years or more?

His father is the man who raised him, he's been there for his whole life. Who gets jealous or upset if their spouse talks to their parents? If my spouse wanted to talk to his parents, I'd be happy and talk to them too, since it builds rapport and you maintain a good relationship with your in laws. Besides it's not like you can stop him from talking to his dad.
It is normal to talk to your loved ones everyday.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So, how is this really a problem?

Like, a ton of women have infinite patience when dating a deadbeat drug addict. But your husband's vice is having a good relationship with his dad... and you want to leave him?

Maybe stop being ridiculous? Get a hobby, read a book... do something for the small amount of time he's on the phone.

linds34 · Accepted Answer

I don't think talking for 15 or 20 minutes on the phone is a problem, and I think it's good that he has a close relationship with his dad.

MaverickNick1 · Accepted Answer

You are considering divorcing a man just because he is close to his father and enjoys talking to him. Do you even realise how much of a controlling b*tch you sound like. Who cares how far away his dad lives, he enjoys talking with him. He's not yours 24/7 just because you want him do be. You're NOT the only important person in his life. If anyone is straining your marriage its you.

zorro8888 · Accepted Answer

Wtf is wrong with him? Sounds like a weird incest daddy fetish... I'm so sorry you have to go through this OP!

Nik1hil · Answer

Print this question and give it to him!.. It will solve everything

Neverrrmore · Answer

🤔 are you the same one who wrote the "I'm the perfect cheating girlfriend" question?

vishna · Answer

Lady..

blutwolfe · Answer

lol that update, you have problems lady Something tells me you want to be the controlling bitch and he's not letting you, and this really rustled your jim jams

Anonymous · Answer

It's funny how you call him weak for this, yet you can't even be able to spare him 1 hour a day to talk to someone else. No offense but seriously you should consider that

BeastRB · Answer

Why is this a problem? 20 minutes a day that your husband spends talking to the man who raised and cared for him bothers you? 🙄🙄

Nightinggale · Answer

If anything he should divorce you. What a selfish and controlling attitude you have. If you really loved your husband you wouldn't care that he talks to his FATHER. Seriously? What the fuck...

Luna12 · Answer

Firstly, its completely normal. You're a possessive mess tbh. He doesn't have a problem, you do. You're trying to decrease his contact with his dad? Wtf?

wrish09 · Answer

You should stop thinking so much just because you are married to the Guy doesn't means that he is going to do everything you want him to. Let him talk to his Dad. I don't see any problem with that.

danodamano333 · Answer

So, wait... you're considering a divorce over not having his full attention for these 20 minutes each day?

PlacentaSalad · Answer

Does your husband own an iPhone? If he does, then I'm not sure why you married him to begin with.

NajemEddine · Answer

is he going to cheat on yout with him?  no  than shut up

ΉOMO_乇尺乇CTU丂 · Answer

Stop being stupid. That's what you do

Anonymous · Answer

Have fun getting divorced.

singlebee · Answer

Either you are a troll or a complete fucking bitch

ASEXY · Answer

Nothing, it's his dad!

Chico_brah · Answer

I'm triggerd.

Anonymous · Answer

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