It has a lot of factors: which friend was he with?(some of my friends would be sensitive to this, others wouldn't care) what kind of relationship did they have/how was the breakup? (if it was serious/long term or messy break-no, if it wasn't and they just fizzled out/mutual breakup-maybe)
how recent did this happen?(a month or two ago-no, 6+ months- maybe) what is my friends current relationship with this person? (even the slightest hint of feelings good or bad is a no. If they're totally off the radar maybe)
Overall it would have to be that one in a million type connection for me to even consider it, and I would make sure that my friend isn't going to be hurt by it, as they are more important than a bf.
I'd ask that particular friend whether she still had feelings for him, whether she thought it was OK if I dated him. but not if I just think he's cute, but if I really came to like him when he was with her.
when I first read your question I thought you meant whether I could date someone who has previously slept with one of their friends, as in friends with benefits. that answer would be no. I wouldn't/couldn't date a guy who felt it so damn necessary to sleep with one of his friends just to get some action. if you dated someone and it didn't work out and you stayed/became good friends, OK, that works, but just getting a friend of yours to jump in the sack with you because you're horny is not OK for me.
Noooo couldn't go there. Was in this situation a long time back and even though he was, still is, a great guy and very good looking and everyone commented on how much he seemed to like me the fact that he slept with one of my best friend was a major, immediate turn off
Under no circumstances should you go after this person. This would make you look bad and your friend. There would be no line according to another if they saw you take her. It is better to keep a respectable way of dating then getting second servings of a girl your friend just had.
It means too much to me. I won't consider it.
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I'm currently seeing someone who has slept with 2 of my friends, and more recently I found out she had a one night stand with my brother about 2 years ago. It put me off her big time but I learn't to ignore it as my true feelings were still underneath, it's in the past, I'm not going to stop pursuing someone just because who she's been with just as I hope they won't with me.
I just asked them if they had a problem with me seeing her and none of them did so here I am now and I'm glad I pursued her, even though there's a little banter between us
Affects me big time...and I have discussed this on here.,.NO!...I have no use for virgins and I am fine with having a sexual partner that has "experience"...but NOT with friends and family..if that makes me a redneck..than proud to wear the title...(:(:(:
I don't see a problem with it. My current boyfriend dated many of my friends before he started dating me. All the relationships were short and the breaks were clean. Also, I had a one nighter with my boyfriend's best friend. They love to make jokes at my expense because of it, but I roll with it. We're all friends, it's all good.
Why would this bother me in the slightest? I seriously don't understand.
Is there a good reason to be bothered here?
No. Never. The whole idea just seems weird to me. I wouldn't like my friend knowing what my man's stuff down there is like and how his bedroom moves are. It just seems inappropriate and sleazy.
i wouldn't care. I'd just make sure it was cool with my friends and if they said they didn't mind then I'd probably still go out with him.
I believe I could, but if she didn't sleep with me as fast as him, no.
I coyuld not, unless I had a really great connection with that person..everyone has a past and I'm not going to hold it agaist him if I really like him..
Never. I can't even bring myself to be attracted to my friend's seconds. Nasty...
I couldn't do it but hey to each there own I guess
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I wouldn't have a problem with it.
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