I wouldn’t. It’s funny because this girl tried calling me a narcissist with “royalty standards” because I told her I’m not interested in being a relationship with her, since she has a friend she slept with that she wouldn’t stop talking to even with a man.
Leonardo DiCaprio from the Wolf of Wallstreet: "Absolutely fking not."
Don't let women shame you for having reasonable standards- obviously they still will, but it's on you to accept them and bend to their manipulations, or not. I commend you for not buying into this girls manipulation.
In this modern world we men often have to accept that other men have been with our woman before us. People chant "the past is the past," as if this changes the fact that the thought of other men having sex with our woman can bother us. Most of us have been trained to not think of it- the past is simply "off limits, for discussion, and from thought." To some degree I envy the men who are able to do this; ignorance is bliss.
However, the past can only stay in the past if it doesn't touch the present. You or your girl continuing to have relationships for those she had sex with makes those sexual relationships relevant to today. It's not a sign of maturity, let alone masculinity, to shake the hand (or be friends with) the guy who had sex with your girlfriend before you.
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Probably not. Best friends plus that level of sexual intimacy, you'd never know where you stand with them.
Like I'm good friends with my ex who is now a lesbian. There has been times in the past where we've slept together again when single even though she's a lesbian.
Generally speaking, it isn't inappropriate for someone to remain friends, including close friends, with a former sexual partner, as they are mature about their friendship and are on the same page and still don't have feelings for each other
I would be. If I know it's over and it's in the past, there's nothing there anymore, I don't have a problem with it.
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Billions of people in the world and the best friend is someone they slept with? Nah I don't need that kind of silliness in my life.
I could accept it but I wouldn't take her seriously in a relationship, but that fact would serve to throw it in her face every time she makes me angry. If he slept with a woman, no, I supremely dislike bisexual women.
Totally okay. They chose me. Past is the past. End of discussion.
In theory. Sex and love are totally different things to me, so there would have to be some serious ground rules in place
I would be a hypocrite if I didn't because I am friends with some of my ex's.
Yes, it is not a big deal at all.
No way
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