I have feelings for my girlfriend's twin sister, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I have been with my girlfriend for almost 16 years and her twin sister and I are very close though we all known each other since we were little kiddies. Me and her twin sister are very much alike, kind, thoughtful, caring and we get along so well till one night my girlfriend embarrass me in front of my workmates Because she was jealous of the girl I was talking to we are just friends chatting about work, I walked out and I was followed by her twin sister told her to go away Because that's your twin sister, she refused and held me and said "why didn't you choose me I wouldn't have treated you that way" I pretended that I didn't hear that but I keep pushing her away now I regret it Because now I could not stop thinking about it ever since she said that its harder to hide these feelings Because we are living together, now that her man and son are over here from NZ I don't know if she still have feelings for me though I have caught her staring at me a lot then she would look away when I turn I smiled to myself. When we drink together alone after work we stare at each other for such a longtime but nothing happened after that, my friends notice her staring at me sometime when I'm not looking, I am falling for her and the connection is too strong, do you think she still have feelings for me even though she has a man? Please help

[martyfellow]

They are twins for a reason...and there's alwaays jealousy between them. But treat the other twin like a kid sister. If you try getting romantic with the second twin, you will LOSE BOTH OF THEM without a doubt! And tell the other twin what the second one said, have her deal with the situation rather than you. This is a minefield and only the two twins could ever work it out!

So stand back and let them!

[Asker]

I know about the twins I have known them since we were 6 years old, I have been going with my girlfriend since I was 19 years old. Their family and my family knows how close we are, our story is like My Best Friend Wedding, I am the guy and she is Juliet Robert, that's the story of our lives

[martyfellow]

Good luck, and thanks for the best Answer!

[Konnour]

Why do you fall for someone else while you already have someone... who looks exactly the same?

[Asker]

Its not the fact they look the same my girlfriend can be nasty and her twin is nicer and kind than my girlfriend, its what she said to me that bothers me plus me and her went out karaoke she sang "For you I will" byMonica to me with feelings and she gazed at me while she was singing it, also that song is mine and my girlfriend song

[Konnour]

You've been with her for 16 years! Of course sometimes you may have arguments. You haven't been with her sister ... ever. That's why it seem like "a better option" but it's not.

[Anonymous]

Doubt it. If she's married and has a kid, she will most likely not leave her family to be with a woman. Besides if you leave your girlfriend for her sister, that's going to cause a crap load of drama and mist likely she will take her sisters side and then you'll have nobody.

[Asker]

She's not married plus she came to Oz by herself, her partner is lazy and he's very immature and childish, she has to baby him and she is getting tired of it now and then, my bestmate notice that she's only pretending to be happy. She told my boyfriend that she feels comfortable and safe when she's with me because she can be herself

[Opinion Owner]

I just think it'll really blow up in your face if you go from one sister to the other. Those types of scenarios never end well. I'd just stay friends with the other sister.