How to deal with bf's sister always hanging out with us?

[Anonymous]

I am glad my boyfriend is family oriented and I even like hanging out with his sister. It just seems like the closer I got to my boyfriend, the more she hangs around a lot.

Whenever I'm with him, she's always there and it's the three of us. Sometimes she'll bring her long term boyfriend around but she seems to always want to be around us more. I just don't like feeling like the relationship involves us 3.

When we go out my boyfriend usually invites her too. Our weekends usually consist of hanging with her or her and her boyfriend. I feel like he'd be offended if I asked to cut down on her spending time with us.

[prettyhotsexy90]

Maybe she feels as though your taking him away from her, so she feels the need to tag along or get closer. Or she secretly dislikes you and does this too irritate you or it could be an evaluation to see if your really down for her bro. But if you really feeling this guy, you need to set boundaries or drop him and his sister. Because in order to truly get to know someone, you have to spend some alone time with them, and if you constantly have someone **** blocking, it's just not going to work out. So just take a straight forward approach, say hey ' this is the problem...I would feel more comfortable if...and I don't mind if she hangs with us sometimes but I can't do this all the time.

And it's a done deal.

[Babygirl18]

Just tell him how you feel me personally I wouldn't mind but comunication is always good or talk to her ask her why she wants to hang out with you two so much the best way to deal with it is to communicate your problem with the people that it involves

[Anonymous]

My sister and I are best friends. We have an agreement that we don't date people that the other doesn't like, as it just makes things difficult. Her and I hang out quite a bit and I always work to get her to establish a friendship with the girls that I've dated and most of the time it's worked out. If she wants to hang out at a time that I want just for my partner and I, she respects it. Just ask him if there can be some ground rules.