Is it possible to successfully become friends and possibly go out with a female regular customer?

[yellowmamba024]

So I work at the cashier once or twice every week at a car wash. The other two to three days I work inside the office and cover the cashier during lunch time. Anyways, I am starting to see quite a lot of regular customers coming in. But I have seen this one really cute girl three times already in one month of working. I don't think she finds me downright unattractive or anything, although I could be wrong. Now I am not going to tell you signs that she likes me or whatever because she can sure as hell just being nice. Also, I would be VERY surprised if she doesn't have a boyfriend since she is really pretty.

The main question is would she find it creepy if I start very small conversations with her? I hope to get to know her someday. But I plan to take it slowly, little by little. If she is SOMEHOW single, I would really like to get to know her. She seems like a good and down to earth girl.

[johari]

In my experience no... It Never lasts long, first it goes well and special treatment is given but then when it goes bad I can't go to that store anymore unless I go at another time, knowing he won't be there...I've learned my lesson not to cross that boundary

[yellowmamba024]

I am not going to give her any special treatments... No way. I mean I hit up other customers that aren't cute girls. In fact, I never really chat up with cute girls when I work before. I let them do initiate, but of course, it does not happen often.

[johari]

Lol good because you could lose your job over special treatments. Giving stuff away for free is kinda stealing.

Well small talk is normal while you're ringing up her items so you can just do that if she's not in a rush.
Most of the time I saw the guy cashier during break when he made his move to exchange numbers.

[yellowmamba024]

I plan to advance slowly. I don't expect to get her number or whatever the next couple of times I see her. I just want to make small talks and see how it goes. I make small talks with some other regular customers so I am kind of thinking why not do the same with her? I mean I shouldn't see her as something special and just a regular customers like the others too right?

[johari]

Ya talk to her like everyone else. Good luck :)

[johari]

How'd things go? Thanks for BA

[yellowmamba024]

Haven't seen her. But I got other plans and this regular customer isn't included in my future plans.

[johari]

Oh ok well it's good you don't have all your eggs in one basket ;)

[yellowmamba024]

Yeah I have gone through too much with women to have all my eggs in one basket.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You can begin conversations with her, sure. I don't think she'd find it creepy unless you are getting way personal right off the bat. Give it a shot.

[Anonymous]

It's possible but rare