Polls: Family & Friends

Would you defend someone who is dead or just ignore the speaker?

Does proximity to the deceased dictate whether you can or will speak poorly of them?

It makes sense to make sure you aren’t buying weed or something but my mom made a comment today about a friends just random situation

and it mf weirds me out that she reads even not bad gossip… but bringing it up to me like she's in my class makes me want to just not talk to people lol

(I don’t buy weed by the way lol I just had to give her permission if I wanted a new iPhone)

Do you consider your pet a member of the family? Do you treat them like any other member of the family?

Please vote in the poll and tell us your story.

Okay so this happened to me years ago.

I was getting ready and set for prom or homecoming whatever; I was in an online school at the time I was going to, and this happened in like the early of 2020, right before the COVID struck. You’re one of the prom committees to take part in planning for the prom, so you’ll be wanting to take a date with a girl from your school, right? But then my mother knows of this, and she’s a narcissistic parent. She says and wants for your sister, who is a brainwashed, manipulated version of her, to take her as your prom date, and you denied that because, knowing the sister, all she’ll do is report back to the mom and say what happened with you out of prom while she spies and watches your move. What my sister would do is she’ll watch me from afar when I meet with my former best friend I had at the time who was anointed to be one of the prom committees also or whatever and talk to girls. The sister will feel to come over to intervene in it, saying hi, hello, I’m his sister, or you go to walk with your friend out to the hall or something, go to the bathroom together just chatting and having fun whatever during the night, but then she’ll pull you wise and say you shouldn’t be talking to girls like that; they are worldly. The religion is JW’s (Jehovah Witness), and the way the sister and mom think is that those who aren’t part of their religion are labeled to them as bad people, but that person doesn’t think of people that way because not everybody in the world is bad and there’s genuine good people out there, you’d just need to get to know people to know their character and respect them as we all are humans and should never be treated differently no matter our religion. But they are critical and judgmental of people even if they show they are good with pure intentions but still find something criticized or call them worldly.

So tell me y’all answers or opinions on this?

Would it even help?

This woman told me her son's wife's family has two private jets and all these car dealerships, and one was given to her specifically. Her uncle runs the business and just pays her for her share. She doesn't do any actual work. I hate that sort of spoiled entitlement. Not doing anything to actually earn it bothers me. I think that creates the type of person you'd imagine it would create.

Assuming you are soon to be a parent and you are having a gender reveal party, which are you hoping for a girl or a boy?

When you know you did (or still doing) something bad to someone, is it so difficult to stop and apologize?

Why is it that sometimes when you're trying to get to know someone, or you just befriended someone new, but a few days in, something seems off about them and it feels like they aren't really being genuine with you?

Or this can be with a family member too whom you've known all your life.

Like, most of the time, you feel like you're the only person making the effort while they never approach you themselves unless they need something from you?

Has this ever happened to you? If so, how do you deal with people like this?

Happened to me several times for few of my female friends.