Questions: Family & Friends

I mean when you last had to ghost someone what was the reason? And im talking about someone you’ve been speaking with for a little while at least.

also could have been this week or years ago when you last had to do this.

im sure everyone knows what ghosting means but jic: when you drop all contact from a person with no reason given to them whatsoever. You just disappear from them and you also ignore attempts they do to speak with you again. You might’ve even blocked them entirely.

Or should i instead not do that and just focus all on the other person sharing their story?

I usually try to share something similar to what they share with me. the intention is to make them feel less alone or abnormal about their ordeal. but on the other hand it might come across as making their story about me.

So for instance someone might share how they were broken up with and in turn i'd share an experience about how i was broken up with myself. Is this bad? Should i not do this?