Polls: Family & Friends

Gender dissapointment is kept well hidden but it is common factor and it is real.
You may or may not feel tempted to feminize your Kid
Force him to be a girl
Make him believe that it what he wants (when in reality he doesn't want it)

My girlfriend does this to all her female friends, but I believe it would probably be rather uncomfortable to have so much bare skin touching each other unless you're really close friends.

When’s The last time you stole?

I have, when I was very little.
in elementary school to be exact.

I was caught stealing school equipment.
It was a gym football.
I stole it so me and my dad could use it when I got home.

One time I didn’t get caught stealing
This was around the same time.

I stole a Quarter dollar from my neighbor.
I had never seen one before
my little brother also stole one, he got caught, I didn’t.

My 8 year old brother was told to shut off the XBOX at 8pm and reset it in a little bit. While his parents were around and he was talking to a cousin of his, he said "What the frick was that?" and our mom and his dad told him not to "talk like that."

I'm kind of bugged that people still consider frick a bad word.

First, let me clear this up, I am willing to bet most mothers are definitely not the toxic kind, this is why my question wasn't worded in a way to paint all women as a certain way, cause they aren't. My question is only about toxic mothers, not fathers not women, and not men. Please comment if you vote.

People would rather be right than to know the truth, and I think we're to blame for it. I've admitted that I was wrong a couple of times but a lot of those time the person who corrected me feels the need to insult me while doing it for no reason at all, they would respond to me with "No this is what happened you fucking idiot" and when I review the facts and see, I'll admit that I'm wrong and the edgelord wannabe will respond "that's right you fucking retard."
This is why people have become dumb, they know they're wrong but they don't want to own up to it because assholes want to berate them for it, this is one of the reasons that we can never succeed as a society.

Is it a show of true strength when someone is willing to take the embarrassment of being wrong?

Does it make that person a badass?

I don't know why he just popped up in my head, but now I feel like talking about him.

My brother in law is a smooth talking con artist who dyes his hair (old and going grey) makes himself look younger so he can go to college campuses, date teenage white girls (he's black) and convince them into having unprotected sex by saying he'll "pull out" and once she gets pregnant he moves to another state and leaves her to raise the child alone. He has about a dozen children in different states with different mothers. He has a criminal history of theft and is currently in jail for stealing credit cards.
He had no business being with my sister, he's the same age as our mother and he met her when she was 16 (he was 35 at the time) he got her addicted to drugs, got her pregnant and beat the shit out of her. My sister had my Nephew at 17, and he fucked off somewhere else to do the same to more women. My Nephew had to grow up without a father figure. He returned for a couple months a couple years ago, but he was more interested in fucking my sister and he was staying mostly because he was broke and had nowhere else to turn, then he fucked off again to a different state.

I've honestly have picked up dog shit with a plastic bag on my hand that I respect more that I'll ever respect him.

FUCK HIM!!!

Recently there's been a rise (or supposedly a rise) in girls being more attracted to 'Dadbod' men rather than the muscled/toned guys.

Is this true?

Im 23 live with my grandma and grandpa

I'm an 18-year-old guy. My friend is 19 and my sister is 14. I'm white and my friend is black.

So I invited my friend over to play video games. But we couldn't play because my sister was playing GTA V on the PS4 and we don't have other gaming consoles. My friend and I ended up having to play cards instead. About two hours later, I asked my sister if she could let us play and she replied "Fine, but let me finish the race." But before I could reply, my friend said: "Oh, cut it out. You don't need to finish the fucking race. You fucking suck at this game anyway. There's a reason girls don't play video games." My sister got really mad. She got to her feet and screamed: "Who cares about your opinion? Who cares about what you think? You're just a fucking n***er that can't do anything else than insulting people. Besides of being a n***er, you're also a sexist!" My friend proceeded to call her a "ugly blonde and blue-eyed bitch." My sister then felt insulted and kicked him in the balls. Afterwards, my friend yelled: "So you're fighting dirty? Fine, I'm not playing with you anymore!" He then turned around and told me: "I really wonder how I became friends with you. I always thought you were nice, but I didn't know you came from a racist family. Have fun with your stupid sister!" He then walked out the door and slammed it.

After he left, I began to yell at my sister for what she said and told her that she should be careful next time because it could get her in trouble. Well, she started crying and saying that I'm a bad brother for not standing up for her. She then told me she hates me. That was the last thing she said to me.

So AITA?

I'm 18 and currently living with my parents (I graduated last June and have trouble finding a job). In that house also lives my older brother (21), my younger sister (16), and the sister in question (14).

So my sister is 14 and got kicked out of school for poor performance (35%! She skipped almost every day). The only thing she does is staying at home playing video games. As both my mother and brother have to work late, I offered to take care of the house.

Well, my duties is keeping the house clean and cook for my sisters. Since I don't see why I should be the only one cleaning, I give menial tasks to my sisters (empty the dish washer, take out the trash etc.).

Yesterday I asked my 14-year-old sister to clean a dirty window. She was busy playing GTA and told me "later". 2 hours later after I was done with everything else I asked her if she would EVER do the window. "Goddamnit, later" was all I got back. I cleaned it myself and it took me 2 minutes. After I was done I told her that doing nothing is what a useless brat like her does best. She got angry and said "I fucking hate you, go fuck yourself" while she ran to her room. I followed her and told her that she just can't talk to me like that. She then showed her middle finger to me and said "fuck you". That's when I exploded in rage and slapped her in the face. It was probably very hard, as she was crying and holding her left eye and cheek.

Was I wrong to slap her?

And how could I have handled it better?

My friend has a cousin coming from the States who is 21 and he's 19. His parents are okay with them sharing a bed even though she's a female and he's a male. I see nothing wrong with it as well but my parents think it's completely insane for opposite sex people to sleep together, especially family members. They're trying to insinuate that something sexual would happen but would a parent not allow a gay child to share a bed with males because of their sexuality? Seems ridiculous.

They're family members and not going to be having sex so what's the big deal?

My younger sister likes to watch movies with me at the end of the day it’s kind of our thing. When it’s lately she usually starts to cuddle with me and lays on me. The last few times she has she started playing with my hand and end up interlocking our fingers. It makes me feel kinda weird cause we are brother and sister but I also kinda like it. She is 11 and I am 16 so I don’t think it’s that weird in “that way”