To the guy who says 'she's just softening the blow', you blew it dating her I hope you know that. Listen to me and listen to me carefully. Whenever somebody says that, TAKE THEIR WORD FOR IT! She's not ready to date you. She wants to get to KNOW YOU BETTER to see compatibility. If she didn't really like you, she wouldn't even be around you. Spending time with you MEANS we like you! Would you want to hang around somebody you dislike or hate? Not me.
"And says he’s fun but doesn’t want to date anyone because she’s not sure what she’s doing with her life. And suggests hanging out more as friends." She can be fickle and its understandable. Would you rather she date you, not like you and then cheat and date other men? Better that she told you this instead of playing with everybody's feelings and herself. She is taking her time, is probably guarded and is getting to know herself. If you have no intention of just being friends and want a sexual relationship, then do find somebody else and allow her to be with somebody who would understand her and she can be with him and you can be with who you want.
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No, she just isn't in a hurry
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