She is friendzoning you. If you can see her as just a friend with no romantic or sexual desires, then go for it. But if you don't back off, this is basically a romantic/sexual rejection on her part. This happened to me multiple times. Garaunteed in time she will announce that she is seeing someone else and when you ask "what about me" or "I thought you weren't ready" she will reply "Oh it just happened! But we can still be friends." Then you get to see the woman you love date and fuck other guys, it gets really depressing!
So if you can see her as a friend or sister do it, if not back of and cut her out of your life! It will save you a lot of future grief!
Both of your options show a fear of enforcing your boundaries, scarcity mindset, and lack of direction. It's why guys end up in the friendzone...
Option C, no friendship, no attention, no hangouts... no nothing. If she wants a friend, she can go find one elsewhere. You asked her out because you were looking for something more. Do not change the goal posts to fit in with how a woman wants you to play ball, because she wouldn't do the same for you. Move on, and only reconsider if she earns it.
Usually, I only tell the guys I am not interested in that I am not ready for a relationship when that's not the truth. Fall back
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