Polls: Family & Friends

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Since I was a very small, I've always called my dad daddy. I never called him pops, dad, father. I always say "Daddy can you take me to the store?" "Daddy can you help me tie my shoe?" Me and all of my siblings say this and we're all 15+. My friends think that it's strange or guys say it sounds too sexual. They even go as far as saying "U call ur dad daddy? That's really weird."

Ok lets say the layout is...
Top Floor- 3 Bed 2 Bath 1 Private Living Room
(Master gets its own bath, Other 2 rooms share)
Middle Floor- 5 Bed 4 Bath 1 Living 1 Den 1 Kitch
(3 Beds get their own bath, other 2 share hall)
Bottom Floor/Basement- 2 Bed 1 Bath 1 Rec
(Both Beds share a bath)

For me...
I’d stay on the top floor with my husband and 2-4 kids. Its 3 bed, so a room for us, then a room for the girls, and a room for the boys.

I’d invite my mom, sis, and 2 grandparents to stay on the middle floor as long as they each give $250 a month to help with rent. My grandparents dont like sleeping in the same room lol so those 4 bedrooms would be used. The fifth room would be my guest room for when friends come over. However, if my family starts acting up, i’d sell the mansion, downsize and everyone goes back to living in their own house.

As for The 2 bedrooms on the bottom floor, I would turn those into my office and his mancave. But when the kids age up, we’ll use it as bedrooms so that they get their own rooms.
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Ooooohhh weeee!!! This topic loves to get hate and people shouting at you without giving a proper opinion. To make it more exciting. Im not going anonymous feel free to swear and curse at me and tell me I'm a bad person. And see if you find the irony of that.

Okay so my view on this topic is simple. I do not believe spanking (normal way, not sexual) your child is abuse. I was. My siblings were. My parents were. My friends were, and we are far from emotionally damaged people.

We care for our family and friends. We hate to see someone get hurt and we respect our elders.

Now I will admit to one thing. This form of punishment can definitely be abused. In that you can be too rough or too intense or do it for anything. Even small things. That's when it becomes physical abuse to me and that's horrible.

But whenever I did something very wrong. I got 1 smack. Maybe 2 and it hurt and I cried. But everytime without fail my parents. Dad or mom would tell me this hurts them more than me and they do it out of love. And I fully believed them. Thank God I wasn't sent to my room. I had so much stuff to do there. Wouldn't learn a thing.

A spank is a quick form of punishment which is easily to translate into being a punishment. It's sore and you don't want it to happen again. That's how I learnt what I shouldn't do. And no they didn't smack me and leave. They explained what I did wrong and I faced the consequences. Many techniques of discipline work for kids. This was mine and if you think you able to tell me if my parents loved me or not or if im damaged that's just laughable.

I reiterate. This form of discipline can be abused and done out of anger or hate. But that's something wrong with the parents mental state. Not the form of discipline. Anything in this world can be a taken too far.

I also find the abuse of children horrible and terrible. But if you can't see the difference in this. Then that's on you.

I know I am.

I live with my dad and only see my mom a few times a year. My 13 year old sister and her 14 year old boyfriend are having sex. She posted videos of them doing it (the sound and her moaning) when my mom wasn’t home. She posted that she thinks she might be pregnant and skipping school and
all of this crazy shit. I am on a fake account and screenshotted her (she has no idea it’s me and will add anybody). I censored out her face because she’s a minor. Like I seriously don’t think her mom has any clue and I don’t think it’s my place to say anything but she’s 13. She’s also a huge smartass and has a nasty attitude with everyone and thinks she knows everything. I don’t know what to do? Send my mom a text with these screenshots or leave it alone?

I used to be friendless, but now I have more female friends than males.