Polls: Family & Friends

This is a follow up to my cookie dunking question since my evil, middle sister is still in full denial that she is evil and further more , in her delusional thinking , she brazenly proclaims that her sweet, wonderful, awesome little sister somehow, inconceivably is partially responsible for her deranged, twisted, narcissistic, bullying, mean, evil, mental and psychotic, emotional disorders.

So, once again, without any passive-aggresiveness or bias on my part, I turn to complete strangers to justly, fairly and honestly put this matter to rest and prove the bitc... I mean, my loving sister, wrong and evil, once and for all.

So, is Random's middle sister evil?

The photo shows a wholesome American family prepping a pumpkin for Halloween. The brother is steadying it while his sister scoops out the flesh, and the mother looks on, ready to make some nourishing soup. It's a scene that'll be played out across countless homes.

But let's be honest, some people are better than carving than others. So are you the type who does a triangle nose and eyes with zigzag teeth, or do you do complex multi layered designs?

Long story short, I started facing forced marriage threats from my dad since I was 5. It started with my parents telling me how they got married and that it is the norm in our culture. I was pretty much feeling really scared and anxious, so one night in 1st grade I couldn’t sleep from fear and anxiety, so went to looking for comfort from my parents (mind you they were still awake and chatting to each other).

I had this “you’re my parents you’re not going to do that to me right?” as my actual intention when confronting my parents, because as a kid I somehow understood all of the downside of forced marriage including marital rape—which now as a grown adult with a BSpsych + master in psychotherapy and training in working with forced marriage survivors/girls at risk, I can confirm my understanding back then was oddly correct and logical for a 5-year-old kid (which I got no idea how child me understood the concept so well just from reading and observation but adults didn’t?).

Anyways, continuing the story, instead of reassurance from my parents, what I got was my dad becoming furious, red, and started yelling about obedience because apparently I wasn’t “submissive” or “obedient enough” for a Asian little girl. I was constantly seen as a disrespectful brat because I wanted autonomy, and they are more than wrong, because revenge is the main thing that I aimed for.

I wasn’t just a disrespectful brat, I started having this desire to kill and to destroy anyone that attempted to hurt me especially and specifically my family. When i was 7 years old the plan was final, how i want to live my life, how i will destroy people involved if i were forced by my parents to marry, how much force would be appropriate, who to hurt and not to hurt,… back then i grieved my potentially muddy future, and now i grieve for my lost childhood.

Anyways, i’m interested if you had a normal childhood