Questions: Family & Friends

If they refuse to learn English (not even basic things or their own address), don't even try and use their children as translators for everything would you call that lazziness?

I was expected to even translate insurance policy forms at the age of 10. At that age, I didn't know what foreclosure meant nor how to explain harder terms. Even now as an adult, I still can't translate everything.

Do you feel the people you interact with have a profound affect on your future?

Do you hang around people who are doing things with their life or stagnant individuals?

Are their people you had to let go because they weren't progressing in life?

I'll keep it short
I had a best friend in my pre university.
I broke friendship with her because she backstabbed me and i trusted her a lot. (4yrs ago)
Recently her dad died because of cancer. I was kinda traumatized. I called her up and talked to her (for 1st time in 4-5 years) she said "we will meet soon-ish"
She still didn't accept my insta request
I want to talk to her but dunno if i should.

I would be distraught, familiarity is so very important.

They had their same personality and everything, they just looked like a completely different person.