How to heal from physical and emotional abuse from a family member?

[Anonymous]

[CrazyGirl2]

I wanted to speak with you, @PrettyPriya mentioned that you should speak with me, and I would be happy to. We can speak privately in my DM as I’m sure you don’t want the world knowing who you are, and what happened to you. Believe me, I know… I was there myself! Obviously you’ll need to drop the anonymous thing, as trust must go both ways. I was raped by my uncle on my 13th birthday, something he continued doing almost every weekday for nearly three months! So wherever you are in your grief, I have been there. Please reach out to me.

[PrettyPriya]

Honestly, I think you need to speak with @CrazyGirl2 and listen to her closely. She is a wonderful person and knows a lot about this sort of thing. She can really help you.

I have tagged her and I know she will respond when active.

[CrazyGirl2]

Wow thank you for thinking of me. Unfortunately is the subject matter that reminded you to think of me!
Yes, to the girl who is asking about healing from family trauma and abuse… I would be happy to speak with you privately in my DM, but not if you insist on being anonymous. Believe me, as a girl who was raped by her uncle on her 13th birthday, and that uncle just happened to be my dad’s twin brother, I know all too well the evil of familial sexual abuse and emotional trauma! Please feel free to contact me.

[PrettyPriya]

@CrazyGirl2 Of course. Yes, it is sad that this reminds me of you. However, I also think you bring the most value in terms of helping this poor girl cope with the issue. I know how kind and understanding you are. I think it would be wise for her to DM you in private and talk.

Thank you for the reply.

[CrazyGirl2]

Thanks for your beautiful words @PrettyPriya. I’ve already reached out to her and invited her to DM me, as I fully understand that after something like what happened to me, or even less violative betrayals my family members, can feel embarrassing, even if you have nothing to be embarrassed about, I doesn’t matter, you still FEEL embarrassed. I hope she does reach out to me. God bless her whatever happened! I just need her to know that she is not alone.

[CrazyGirl2]

*BY family members*

[PrettyPriya]

@CrazyGirl2 You are most certainly welcome and the reason I tagged you. I can't think of a better person to help her through this. I do very much hope she messages you as well.

[CrazyGirl2]

Thanks again, all I can do now is pray that she does reach out to me, depending on her Xper level, she’ll likely have to request a follow, and then reach out. So you and me both hope she reaches out. All I can be is a stretched-out hand, now its is up to her to grab that hand, and accept the help. I miss you sweetie, I hope all is well with you. Please don’t be a stranger. 🥰

[TommyMountainFigure]

The first thing to do is to take back the control you lost. You do that by having them outed, arrested and thrown in prison if possible.
Then you rebuild, and undo the damage they did to the best of your ability and live your life to the fullest, showing them they didn't win!