Polls: Family & Friends

Kids just want to do nothing but play video games. They don't want to pick up after themselves or do anything to help around the house. How about offering rewards to do certain chores, like 50 cents to pick up their rooms? Then they can use the money to buy themselves something when they save up some money. What do you do/ or did to get kids to be more responsible?

I actually have this happening in two different cases. My younger brother treats his daughter like a slave. She is expected to keep the house clean, watch her special needs sister, go to school (online classes) and she is also working nearly 30 hours a week. When I say slave I mean, he refuses to do the work at all including taking care of his own special needs daughter. He refused to let my niece (she is 17) come over to see our new puppy because he didn't want to watch his special needs daughter by himself. He also makes her do stuff like massage his feet, bring him dinner and give him money from her paycheck to buy him fast food. There is more than just that, but these are just examples.

When she is 18 she wants to move in with my wife and I so she can get away from it and focus on school and having a life.

My friend (21) also has a very similar situation where her father actually bugs her apartment (he sometimes stays there and pays rent since she is a full time student) to listen in on her conversations. He says he is only paying for her college so she becomes a doctor where he can then retire and have her support him financially for the rest of his life. She isn't even sure she even wants to be a doctor and has major medical issues that her parents ignored growing up that could have been fixed when she was younger. Her mom is not better honestly. I have sort of unofficially adopted her and she does things like movie nights with me and my family (our kids see her as an older sister), but mostly I just try to help her build confidence in standing up for herself.

Given the situations, would you help or stay out of it?

Last week my friend invited me to the club for her birthday to celebrate. She had planned this a couple of months in advance, I was supposed to meet her in front of the club with her friends at 11 o clock. The morning of her bday, she calls me and tells me how excited she is to hangout and how she can’t wait to see me cause it’s been a while. I went shopping for a dress and everything. I had my mom drop me off at the club so I wouldn’t have to park and I’m there at 11, I texted her and she said she’s on the way, 10 minutes later while I’m still waiting outside in the cold she tells me she’s not coming anymore. Turns out she never left in the first place. She was partying somewhere else.

Everyone at work is lazy but me. i fight all day with the dr. s at my practice. Same thing at home. They try to clean I have to redo it
Someone ate Two Pieces of My breadNew cups I just bought were missing I screamed my head off and blew up at every one they were where they said they were. Both daughters went over there aunt's house they seem to scatter whenever I come home furiousHusband. moved out. I want to have a nice family meal with my daughters

Let's say you had a baby and after a few months or a few years, it became painfully obvious the child was growing up to be a total and complete doofus. Could you love your doofy child? VOTE!

I never knew this was a controversial subject. I grew up kissing my parents or family on the lips as a young girl. I kissed my son on the lips as a young child and same with my daughter.

What's disturbing to me is people who really think a peck on your child's lips from a parent is wrong because it's associated as an intimate act between 2 people. It also disturbs me when people turn something so beautiful and innocent into something dirty.

Why don't we just not hug our kids either since hugging can be associated as an intimate act between two people too?

I have 3. One younger brother (age 10) and two younger sisters (age 6 and age 2)
Are you in a set of multiples, I would love to know!