Ideas on what to wear for a second date?

[Anonymous]

Everyone talks about the first date but I'm in dire need for fashion ideas for the second one!

We will probably end up walking a bit around the city, so guess not high heels and cocktail dresses? It's winter time and I can wear stockings but my legs aren't really nice, so nothing too short and revealing, please.

Thank you in advance!

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+1 y

Thank you all for your ideas.
I just have to ask though, what's with the yoga pants? It may be an age or cultural barrier thing, but I can't imagine wearing those on a date...

[vmw2008]

Depends on how formal the date is (where you're going). In the winter, I love the dark skinny jeans with heeled boots look. The ones I have are a thicker heel so they're fine for walking around in. Flat boots would be fine, too. If it's not super cold, I'd also go with leggings and maybe a longer top to cover?

[Asker]

Haha, I've the same taste, I kinda wore something similar in the first date because we were also outdoors!

[vmw2008]

I see nothing wrong with wearing something similar then! As long as you feel sexy and also warm, I think it'll be a hit.

[Asker]

Really? But then it's like you wore the same thing on both dates, isn't it?

[vmw2008]

I mean as long as the colors are different, and maybe wear leggings instead of jeans or vice versa, I don't see what the problem is. Not like guys are going to complain about seeing a sexy outfit twice lol

[Thrifty]

I agree with @vmw2008, of course, but think of it like this...

You ever go to watch sporting events and they just change colors between todays and last nights games?

Same uniform, but different colors.

Here is an example in tennis:

Rafael Nadal
rafaelnadalfans.files.wordpress.com/.../...on3.jpg

[vmw2008]

@Thrifty, exactly. It's not like the majority of guys are going to be the fashion police judging whether you wore totally different outfits. Colors can change everything.

[Asker]

I see what you mean about different colors and textures :)

@Thrifty
Well yeah, but it's sports and I guess for men that's more or less the pattern? They know what to wear, just change colors or polos or shirts, not much to worry about.

[Thrifty]

@vmw2008 I get you... See how you and I are like one mind and one spirit? O:-)

[MayaJJ]

Sweater dresses are super cute and warm, especially cowl neck. I personally love grey ones with a black or brown belt. Under you can wear jeans or stockings/leggings (and you can double up if it's cold). I would recommend tall winter boots if you're outside, and a nice winter coat over top!

[mychelle]

Tight sweater with skinny jeans.

I had no clue, but the fellow I have been seeing told me that tight sweaters really were hot.

[Asker]

Skinny jeans and tight sweater, like showing the whole silhouette :O

[oldanddecrepid]

I would go for good old jeans... something you are comfy in... perhaps with a blouse or base layer top, your coat and some of those nice warm sorel boots.

[Thrifty]

Hopefully nothing and what you don't mind being on the hardwood floor of my room by the end of the night...

[Thrifty]

This what I want you to wear...

Since it's winter, I put this into consideration:

www.spandexpants.net/.../...eggings-1-620x1100.jpg
Top: Long sweater or dress that passes your hips and covers your bag
Bottoms: Black spandex pants
Shoes: Leather boots with heels
Accessories: Black leather purse

Keep it simple.

[Asker]

Haha, I was actually afraid of opening that link after the first comment, but not so bad.
I wore skinny black pants on the first date so the style is very similar... I wanted to try something different. And I've no intention of sleeping with him just yet...

[Thrifty]

If you have no intention to sleep with him on the first date, then he's already screwed... (Get what I did there?)

Anyways, since the style is similar to what I like then maybe you should dating someone like me.

[vmw2008]

Cute outfit! I love it. My only issue would be with how short the sweater is. I have a bit of a booty on me so I always feel a little risque when I show the whole thing in leggings.

[Thrifty]

@vmw2008 Please show me what you're working with... Thank you :)

[Thrifty]

Shake yo ass, watch yourself... show me what you're working with

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7B5KwXHFtw

[vmw2008]

Lol nice try ;) and I personally love the video from The Hot Chick with that song.

[Asker]

I've been running away from guys who want sex on the first or second date all my life though.
I'm sure you can find someone more compatible, hot and all that stuff.

[Thrifty]

I love @vmw2008

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJXsjdx649w
*This is the clip from the Hot Chick, but 'Shake it Fast' is the censored version... I like you pure and unfiltered so shake your ass.

[Thrifty]

@asker Women generally know whether they will have sex with a man within the first 5 seconds of meeting him. Am I right ladies? @vmw2008

[vmw2008]

Lol I'll admit to knowing whether I want to within 5 seconds. But with the majority of men, that decision changes on the first few dates.

[Asker]

Exactly what @vmw2008 said. We know when we just take in consideration the physical part but can change our minds rather quickly. That's why sometimes it's better to wait and get to know the person better.
I guess different people date for different reasons though.

[Thrifty]

I date so that I can eat food at restaurants that I like and I want to share that experience with the person who I invited...

@vmw2008 Can I date you?

[vmw2008]

@Thrifty, you're sweet :)

[Thrifty]

@vwm2008 I am sweet only because you are my honey :)

[Klaatu51]

whatever you have available at the moment... don't give much meaning in clothes ;-)

[Prof_Don]

If u need something casual... I say go with leggings or yoga pants with a cute top (and casual walking shoes).

[Anonymous]

Cute casual dress, flats and stockings! Doesn't matter if it's the first date or the second I wear those because that's my style and feel very comfortable :)

[Iron_Man]

I dont live in a winter town but dress in fashion and dress warm

[Asker]

Lol, that's not very helpful, but thanks.
Do you prefer sexy, lovely, comfortable?

[Iron_Man]

I prefer sexy, but how sexy can you dress in the cold.

[Asker]

I'm thinking you (a woman) can wear sexy without it being too revealing.

[Iron_Man]

Of course she can good luck with that

[Baby__Halo]

yes, just wear YOGA PANTS!

[chims04]

YOGA PANTS!!