So I recently decided that I want my belly button pierced, but my boyfriend disagrees. He says he doesn't want me getting one, he thinks it'll look hot, but he doesn't want me changing the way I am. I don't necessarily think that getting my belly button pierced will change the way I am, any reasons why he might not want me to get it?
He doesn't want me to get my belly button pierced?
What Guys Said 5
Many men associate body piercings/body art with loose/slutty women. Although the two aren't actually linked in any way, many of us inexplicably make that association in our minds.1
I'm with your boyfriend.0
I think he might just not want you to show off your stomach, and having the appearance of a more promiscuous person. People with belly, nipple, genitalia piercings, tend to get associated with that crowd. Its not necessarily jealousy, but more along the lines of protection i guess.
Who is more easy to rape? the one with short shorts, a small tank-top, and a belly piercing, or someone who is wearing proper dress?
chances are, if you're showing less skin, guys will be less sexual towards a person, and more platonic.
I thought that's what women wanted from other men while in a relationship. Non-sexualized fun?0
I think you should respect your boyfriend decision, if he doesn't want then don't do that, he likes you the way you are, so respect his feelings, I like to wear half sleeves shirts but my girlfriends wants me to wear full sleeves shirts, now I wear full sleeves shirts due to respect her feelings, I never thought it's my own life, I should wear whatever I like, because I am in relationship with her, and we love each other.0
What Girls Said 2
Do whatever would make you happy! If you want the piercing, go for it! I personally want one myself aha. He may have said that because he thinks your beautiful the way you are and je doesn't think you need jewelery to make you pretty (:0
maybe he just thinks your fine without it! your kinda lucky you havee a boyfriend that thinks your completly fine the way you are. but then again its your body, I say do whatever you want lol0
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