My girlfriend comes over my house sometimes. It's a mother & daughter layout, so the bedrooms are on different wings on the home. But common areas like the living room, kitchen, back-yard, pool, patio, etc. are used by both of us.
We're very family oriented, so even when she's over, I'm still very close and involved with my family. She just has a habit of dressing inappropriately, I feel, around my parents.
She'll come downstairs with nothing but one of my shirts and her underwear on. Or she'll wear a t-shirt that's kind of long, with no bra and no pants.
My father has already complained to me that he thinks it's very rude for her to bend over to change a DVD, and advertise her hot pink underwear to him. He's right. She's not his daughter, and even if we were married or engaged, which we're not, it still wouldn't be acceptable.
But maybe it is the norm. There is a world outside my own, or our (my & my gf) own, or our (my family) own. I just want to get a sense of what other girls think and how you feel about it.
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Different people are raised with different values. There would be nothing wrong with it at all in my household. I'd suggest asking her if it's a big problem for her to be a bit more prudish when she's in your home. If she says no problem then the issue is solved. If she finds it overly restrictive, then either your family needs to be more accepting of different values, you need to spend time at her place instead of yours, or you need to find a new girlfriend.1