Do you think that women who do not have nice bodies should wear 2 -piece bikinis?

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I know many women are super confident about their bodies and themselves regardless if they look good or bad in clothes that truthfuly and honestly do not suit them but they still wear them even if they look sad to say; ridiculous.

I mean I h ave seen some ladies who you have to be honest who do not have nice bodies and still wear 2 piece bikini, and it is ridiculosu to see them, of course they are not embarrased to show it off, but then I wonder dont they see themselves first in the mirror before going out? Not to bash women who wear them but sometimes you have to have common sense and know what suits you and what does not suit you depending on your body type. A bikini can look great in one person but maybe it won't look good on you, we are all different and have different body types, you have to work with the body you have, even if your confidence is 100%.

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

Oh good, its a girl saying this... but here
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I am sorry but if that were me, no sir I would not. In fact, as a dude that's T-shirt time. I have nothing against body pride but there has to be a place where you go, other people don't want to see that. I have nothing but love here. I am all about encouraging people but this has to be appealing to the eyes. Given that two pieces leave more skin exposed so you are not as hot (heat), but a one piece should not be that much different A two piece is like a reward. Like for guys a speedo is a reward. If I am overweight as a guy I am not putting on a speedo I am sorry. I would think this would make sense...

FMJ_Guy · Accepted Answer

Why are women so judgmental about other women? Jealousy?
What if she is a little more 'cuddly' and she wears a two piece bikini? HOW DOES THAT AFFECT YOU? Why are you just being so harsh on these women, unless you are afraid of something, or unsure?
What if some guys really like women with nice, soft sensual curves, in bikinis? How does that affect you? You probably don't want those kind of guys, anyway.
If you don't like what they wear, don't look! It's not like they are nude, or showing things on a public beach. Are they judging you, like you judge them?

Leimarie · Accepted Answer

Of course, everyone should just wear what makes them comfortable. I wouldn’t care if other people were to judge me in my bikini because I am comfortable in my own skin, unlike some of the people who feel it is their right to criticize and dictate the actions of others.

AuroraRoseat · Accepted Answer

They can wear whatever they want. It's also why I advocate older women wearing shorts. No one has the right to tell someone else what they should or should not wear. You can have your opinion but that's all it should be.

So yes, I do think so.

dantetheexplorer · Answer

Women, and men, should be allowed to wear anything they want, as long as it's not illegal or inappropriate (in public) or against company policy (at work). It's their business what they wear, not yours. No one should feel they have to wear something to please someone's sense of aesthetics.

Yes, if the person is wearing a bikini in an office environment or to a shopping mall, yeah, probably inappropriate.

If the person is wearing a bikini that's transparent and they're going about in public and flaunting their transparent bikini and lady garden in a shopping mall, okay, then yes, that's inappropriate.

If the person is wearing a bikini at a poolside or beach, where bikinis are meant to be worn, then I don't see how it's anyone's business what they want to wear. It's their bodies, not yours.

In fact, many of my female friends have appreciated the fact that when they go to a sauna or onsen, and they see all kinds of women naked there, it makes them relieved, because they see all the different shapes and sizes women come in, instead of the airbrushed, Photoshopped nonsense that frequently shows up in women's mags and just about anywhere.

tysthename · Answer

This is a difficult question to ask, even more so to answer with full unfiltered honesty, personally in my opinion there is many girls that I know that have decent or some cases great beautiful bodies that are self-conscious and unfortunately it takes a toll on their confidence so they wear bikinis that just don't do their body justice. Many people's perceptions of a not nice body in my opinion are skewed and this is because it is their own self perceiving way they look in the mirror. In today's society it seems more and more that we ourselves are the ones who have jaded perceptions when it comes to looking at our own image. In short, I feel regardless of size or what your body type is, you should feel 100% comfortable wearing what makes you feel sexy, so long as no xrated things are showing, in my opinion regardless whether you have a sports illustrated beach body or you're a little on the heavy side, I don't want to see your nipples or private areas unless we're partners and in private.

fxdb2016 · Answer

Anyone can wear whatever they want, that is their right. What they shouldn't do is get offended or think it's wrong when they get unfavorable reactions from people. I knew a large (I mean very large) who would wear very revealing clothing. I gave her props for having confidence but at the same time it was disgusting to look at and I'm sure she saw my facial reactions even though I didn't say anything. What I am attracted to doesn't have anything to do with what magazines/tv/movies "tell me to find attractive". Fit women with attractive features are what I am biologically attracted to. Healthy, fit people are aesthetically more pleasing and I will pursue them whereas fat, or unattractive women are not going to get my attention.

Daddysgirl00 · Answer

That's fucked up. How the hell do you define a nice body. People have different tastes. Some people think skinny girls are unattractive but some people get turned on by skinny girls. My brother is obsessed with girls with big tits regardless of their body size. The bigger the better for him. So while some people think they are unattractive because they are 'bigger', my brother can't stop staring.

Now sure there are some people who are pretty universally attractive, but they are few and far between. What if a girl who you think is unattractive is out on the beach with her boyfriend who finds her attractive. Are you to suggest she can't show her body off to him because some shallow minded people would find it gross? That's typically defined as being an asshole.

PatriciaRodriguez · Answer

Yeah, everyone have their free will, who are we to stop them... it's their rights. We can have our own opinion that's what I know but we can't control other people. We can judge them but we can't stop them, they're just being themselves, we can state our feedbacks but it'll always up to them to listen or not. See free will is also learning and teaching others through our behavior. If we dnt like the way they upbring themselves okay we're free to say it but we dnt have any right to stop them even if we feel the audacity to do it, what we can do is whether to apply it to ourselves or not thats learning and teaching ourselves lessons this life can offer. And which lessons? Things that really matters and I dnt think wearing a bikini is one if them.

Anonymous · Answer

So, what would be an acceptable body for a two-piece? A 100lbs hourglass without an once of fat on it? Are women above 110lbs allowed to wear a bikini? Or women who are pear shaped or apple shaped?
And who are you to tell everyone what's an attractive body? Someone may find jabba-da-hut attractive for all we know, there are places on the wide web where you can find anorexic chicks doing porn. That means that some people are actually turned on by malnourished girls.
I could go on, but I'm not going to entertain your insecurity for longer.

victorvolf · Answer

I think yes. I have female friends, who are above average looking, but are insecure about their bodies and wear a one piece bikini.

I have on the other hand seem women who are not attractive wearing 2 piece bikinis.

In both cases I don't give a fuck, as long as you're not 400 pounds wearing a g-string, you're fine.

lomimore · Answer

I think a woman should wear and rock whatever tge fuck she wants and feel comfortable in as along as she wants too, i agree on the fact that some looks unflattering but who am i to judge her, she can wear whatever she wants as long as SHE feels beautiful.

JustCallMeLeon · Answer

I get your point but its their right to wear whatever they want as long as its not illegal. Yes some people loom really yuck but its not just 300lb wonen in bikini. How about those really hairy dudes with skinny legs and upper body but huge beer belly wearing really short shorts and tank tops?
can't do anything. Its their right...

zombiejagër · Answer

Yes they should because its ur life and if u like what ur wearing fuvk what others think.

For example i have a cowboy hat that i wear with my leather bike jacket honestly couldnt care less i also just got a fleece lined hoodie with an elf pointed hood, i like it so fuck what others think

BuchitaBuchys · Answer

I think they should.
Look, I'm not going to lie and say everyone looks good in whatever they wear, but my or anyone else's discomfort is trumped by their free will to their body and choices.
I also think facial piercings are gross, but I'm not going to tell a stranger that or say they shouldn't wear it, I can just look away.

SugarBlossom · Answer

Yeah, they can wear it: the biggest problem is usually confidence. Different cuts look better on different body shapes, though.

Ellie-V · Answer

Because some people don’t care about what people like you think. I have a “nice body” but I wear a lot of unflattering clothes simply because I like it and other people’s opinions are not my concern. I’m sure they know what they look like in the eyes of people who are considered better looking. But really, it’s about personal preference. Nobody asked you if they looked ridiculous or not.

Selena2418 · Answer

As someone who has always been criticized by others for my body... women should wear whatever the hell they feel comfortable in... not everyone has the same idea of a good body versus a bad body, so that's my issue with the argument that only women with nice bodies should wear whatever they want... also confidence accounts for a lot, people are less likely to care about how someone looks in a bikini if they are confident and radiant.

Mornin23 · Answer

Honestly, they can wear whatever they want, but I really just can't believe that anyone who's extremely obese can really have confidence in their body, whether they pretend to or otherwise, an I'm of the opinion that them wearing said two piece is just a way to make people think that they are happy with their body. I don't really care if they wear them, personally, because it's their decision, but what they should be doing is changing their lifestyle to lose that weight.

Comawhite666 · Answer

Well if you're morbidly obese no clothing is really going to hide your body whether you're in a bikini or a costume? And you can't say that that people like that shouldn't go swimming or to the beach or anything like that. They can wear them as they are made in the sizes, but I know if I was that size there is no way I would wear a bikini~ even now I'm only a little overweight I wouldn't wear one. I'm kind of envious of people who just don't care!

Kaytiee · Answer

As horrible as this is, I must admit I've always thought the same and it's the blunt truth, wear what is right for you, what compliments you, you have to be very dumb and oblivious to think a bikini looks good when you're obese.

lowbrow · Answer

Honestly why do you care what other people are wearing. People should be allowed to wear what they want. You can't just let one body type wear something and not let another body type wear it because you don't like how they look

OldDad · Answer

Let them wear what they want. Is it jealousy on your part that they are confident in their bodies? I can't say, yhere are certain men who do not belong in a thong, yet they are happy. I don't really care what someone is wearing. Be comfortable in your own skin, you are awesome just the way you are.

aaronbw · Answer

Women sent the only ones who find confidence attractive. I've seen many a pretty woman in bathing suits of all kinds at a pool or the beach. But there are some who might have some chub or be overweight and still manage to pull it off somehow, which sad to say, is hard to do.

All in all, I say if you feel confident, then rock that shit because even if guys dont find it attractive, they still look. Use that confidence and do you!

latinabutterfly96 · Answer

I have no idea why guys make a big deal out of this. It’s like they think the world revolves around them. Women don’t give a fuck if you like it or not; THEY like it, so THEY’LL wear it. If YOU don’t like it, too bad. Don’t look.

It’s as simple as that.

Fatboy98 · Answer

Sure. should be fine. But don't get the bikini suit with strings. Because that is the risk of being naked or some asshole untying the string while the woman is not playing attention or they get untie while playing in the water etc. Try find a bikini suit mini locks on it, so no guy would try to pull it off of a girl or something life that.

RationalMale · Answer

I remember seeing two obese girls wearing thong bikinis at a pool... every bit as disgusting as a gross fat guy. And OMG. If you're obese you know it. Working out to go from obese to healthy? Awesome. DON'T WEAR A SPEEDO OR A THONG OR A BIKINI AND SCAR OUR EYES.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Do you think that people who are ugly should wear bags over their heads?

affectaedd · Answer

I think if you have a sexy or a damaged body, you still wear whatever you feel comfortable in even if you look bad in it.. Plus people have different POV so maybe you'll think that she look ridiculous but someone else will think that she looks stunning

loveslongnails · Answer

CAN they wear what they want? Sure. Perhaps they just give a shit what others think of their bodies. What I don't understand is why they think they look good in them? Or maybe they know they don't, and wouldn't look good in any kind of swimsuit, so they just think... fuck it. I think it looks horribly sad to see a 350 pound woman in a bikini, personally.

valar_morghulis___ · Answer

I'm sorry , but just because it seems ridiculous to you doesn't mean it is ridiculous to everyone. If the woman is comfortable enough to wear it , she should go ahead and wear. Everybody is entitled to their own opinions , what is ridiculous and what is not ridiculous depends on one's perception.

bxbydoll · Answer

No to sound stuck up but I have what would be considered a nice body but I'm uncomfortable with the concept of bikinis or men who wear those laughable speedo things. I don't want to see someone's g string up their ass crack attractive or not. A one piece is always more tolerable

Anonymous · Answer

The biggest problem we have in this world is worrying about what other people think. We should all mind our own business. Wear what you want and be happy. I don't care what people wear as long as they're happy. They're bigger things to worry about other than that.

Anonymous · Answer

What do you do when realistically your body works with nothing. Hide under a sheet. People should wear whatever they want. There will be consequences but seriously if someone has a problem with a women of any shape in an appropriate area wearing a 2 piece bathing suit it’s not her that needs to change. Just look away.

MeetAWomanSomehow · Answer

Nope just wear what suits you. Dont wear something that will burn everyone's eyes so to speak lol. I dont mean that as a jerk either cuz I know I ain't that hot I'm just saying wear what makes you look good.

femalepretzelmaker · Answer

As long as she can make back to her vehicle without breathing heavy and worrying the kids with tht come any closer and I'll swallow u up look on her face then yeah sure why not also if I look and say omg god if she became exhausted during sex and passed out on top of me that might just might take my life I mean I don't want that to be my final moment to look like which is my arms and legs poking out her sides just trying everything to wake her up and the thing I hear is her snoring no no

RSav4013 · Answer

I think that as long as it is not malicious, a person should be able to do whatever they want within the confines of the law. Whether you have an athletic bod, or if you are jiggly, do what makes you happy.

sp33d · Answer

Not everyone. One can think of it as a reward for practicing a healthy lifestyle, staying (relatively) in shape.

.. I mean she can wear it fora all I care, but past all the politically correct mumbo jumbo, it's not guaranteed to have a positive effect.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

I would hope the people closest to her would tell her if she was showing too much. I'm all for a confident woman, but there are limits. I wouldn't be comfortable with children around string bikini's whatever shape the woman is in.

RockyHandsome95 · Answer

They shud wear watever they like... Just coz smone find their body ridiculous, they shudn't stop doing tht... Everyone has the right to live.. and everyone is beautiful in their own way... just tht there are few fools who makes them a judge and start giving opinions about others...

Saville_Row · Answer

Look. I am all for using only what looks good on me, but if curvy girls want to wear bikinis of two pieces and skinny ones boots that do not fill, it's their choice.  I am no one to judge.

About_that · Answer

Superficial bullocks. No one should be limited or shamed do to appearances. What problem does an "ugly girl cause in a two piece? And what problem does a "beautiful" woman cause in a 2 piece. These are the real questions

safiripiripeardroppy · Answer

I don't think it's a matter of should or shouldn't, if you're ugly should you cover your face? I get what you're saying though, at the same time people are into all kinds of things and just because you aren't doesn't mean that someone else isn't and that they should appease your tastes. They should do whatever they want to do and as long as they're just in their own reasoning.

SirenDep · Answer

Sure, it's good to work with the body you have. But some women have bigger concerns than their appearance, so their priorities are different, and that's their choice

JGO42 · Answer

No ma'am each and every woman is beautiful and unique in their own ways. . Me personally i love to see all toes shakes and sizes of females not always sexual but good made you gurls so gorgeus that it's hard not to admire a confident woman that knows she looks good no matter what. . That's true beauty. .

RobLovesDemi · Answer

Demi has a sexy as* hot body a really sexy body but she hardly ever wears a 2 piece even though id die to see her in one. But you’re right I have seen a lot of women in two pieces who should not be wearing them.

AlisonWilliamzz · Answer

I think that women should wear whatever they feel most confident in. You don't have to look at someone, and they aren't hurting you so just let them be!

steveguitar · Answer

People are going to wear what they feel, you can't stop it. You may not like it, but you don't really get a say unless you're talking behind their back.

Malita55 · Answer

I think people shouldn't be shunned for wearing certain things (as long as its appropriate) no matter what size/shape they are. Yes, it may not look good on them but who cares? Its their choice

Qwerty_0 · Answer

They can wear what they want. If a 300lb woman wants to wear a scanty bakini, she is well within her right to do so. I just won't look at her, because I've been scarred enough as it is.

BrianJJ · Answer

You need to first realize that everybody has their own opinions about what a "nice body" is.
If you want to talk about the "nice body" that companies have slowly made most people believe to be the only and correct line of thinking in order to make money over and over again off of you, then 2 piece bikinis are only for those with the NICE BODIES.

SirRexington · Answer

They should not wear them but we can't tell them what to do, regardless of how grossly atrocious they look. Some times it the ugly bikini that is the problem. There are way too many of those nowadays.

Glue-Sniffer · Answer

I don't think it is of anyone's business.  If they want to wear bikinis, they should do so. They are doing it for themselves, not you. I hope you realize that!

stepup20 · Answer

If you like it yourself then go for it. It’s your opinion that counts not the opinion of strangers that you don’t even know

DakotaNorth · Answer

Women can (but rarely do) go topless wherever men can. Would that be better for you? If you don't like someone's appearance, don't look. They never asked for your opinion or approval.

JeniferJenko95 · Answer

Yeah, I would be embarrassed. But life is too short not to.  They will still look bad with clothes on, so they might as well put a bikini on. Haha

winterfox10 · Answer

Like you said; it doesn't look great, but there are also a few other directions we can look. It's not like we have to stare at them and make them feel self conscious when they are just trying to enjoy a day at the beach/pool

Anonymous · Answer

Women should feel good in anything they wish to wear. How do you know they could have been bigger and are proud of their mass weight loss or something. Please don’t be that judging type.

MoskiWoski · Answer

People should have to have a license to breed and wear two piece swim suits. Period.

Kazzy36 · Answer

Wear what you’re comfortable with, its nobody elses business what you’re wearing unless you’re causing some sort of harm.

SuzyB · Answer

I think everyone can wear whatever they want, yeah maybe they dont look great but at least let people be happy

Anonymous · Answer

People should wear whatever theyre comfortable in. No one is obligated to wear something to be aesthetically pleasing to someone else. You dont like how they look? Just mind your own damn business and dont look at them.

GFEDATY · Answer

Why should we judge what other people want to wear! They probably feel totally comfortable they are not hurting anyone so leave them alone!

Delarobia · Answer

I'll be honest it doesn't really matter. People can just not look at them... Besides "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" maybe she looks ridiculous for some people but for others she looks great.

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