Have ever lost your ability to talk with very beautiful girl?:)
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interesting question...i met this really hot girl in school and I knew she was interested in me. there were multiple times when I got close to her to see if she would approach and EVERY time she would not take the leap to talk to me. finally, through a mutual friend I met her at a school event and we started talking...i was going with the flow in our convo and smiling and she kept smiling back...but the thing that made me uncomfortable was she never would talk about something until I asked her question...it was like she was too nervous to speak with me...which then made me nervous to speak with her.
finally, she figured out that I liked her (asking her for coffee) and then she started playing hard to get. she tested me by getting mad at me and I totally pushed back on her and walked away from her. which surprisingly got her more interested in me! obviously, she figured out that if I am willing to walk away from her, I was not just there to sleep with her. when I re-engaged her again, she continued to "play these hard to get games" and I heard there were at least 3-4 other guys chasing her. so, I made final move: if you are interested in me then reach out to me because I am done. she finally did come around and by that time I was already interested in an another girl and said c-ya...have a great life. her game playing really turned me off!
also, I got a sense that even though she was beautiful she seemed to lack self-confidence in making her own decisions...she relied too much on her girl friends to tell her who was good for her. I guess so many guys are chasing her that she can't figure out who is good for her...weird.1