So why do most women quickly dismiss men that come up and ask if they have a boyfriend or if they'd like to get coffee sometime. I'm not going to approach a woman dishonestly with some pick up angle because I'm not trying to get laid I'm trying to find a wife. But many women seem to assume I'm a player even though I'm a virgin and often quiet in social situations.
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because looks are important like it or not and beautiful girls and handsome guys that have those good genes know that they deserve the best of best. if you looked like megan fox would you settle with a random mediocre guy or wanna find a boyfriend that has a good personality, looks AND money and etc.
easy math: beautiful girls can get rich husbands. they can get aristocrats or celebrities and such.
and don't need to work 24/7 on a sh!tty job to pay the rent. they can get manicure when the husband earns the money.
so. pretty girls are arrogant to those they think are not good enough to settle with.
other than that from what you said, I feel like you randomly go to pretty girls and offer coffee. I don't know any normal girl thatd say yes to that. maybe someone that's really loose, idk. you should try becoming friends with them, chat for a while, days, weeks, get to know them. if you're still interested then ask them out. if she's fallen for your personality she won't care about the aristocrat life.0