"Whenever my father watches a tv show, he would comment “oh the show host is not pretty"I've heard things like that plenty of times from men... things like the nurse wasn't attractive. I mean wtf? Do you want a skilled nurse or a hooker?
"I'm not ugly it's the patriarchy"Would you blame the patriarchy for how women treat fat men or short men or would you call it a STANDARD! People have standards, they know what they like and don't like. Don't blame men because women make magazines to make each other insecure and post body photos to get attention. Last time I checked women, grown women, can decide for themselves how they want to feel and who they want to like. The fact is 95% of women can get a man with zero problems, but the ones who are single just don't want the people around them. No one is making you look good, no one is making you make an effort.If you want a man to make an effort, ASK HIM. USE YOUR VOICE LIKE AN ADULT.
@Aislin9 my dad was just saying yesterday while my mom was watching a cooking channel on YouTube “that woman is so ugly and fat and she has all those views imagine if you made a cooking channel. I think you’d do better” Lol. As if people were watching her for her looks and not the recipes. Same way when he sees a female newscaster “oh she’s so ugly and she has all that confidence. You guys are so much prettier where’s your confidence?” And he never once commented on the looks of a male actor/model/newscaster/anything funny enough.
And congrats to the person above for completely missing the point of the post with his essay 🤦♀️ I’m not even gonna bother explaining myself anymore.
@Hypnos0929 when your standards are pressuring women to die from starvation diets , oversexualizng women on billboards commercials tv everywhere , Half naked women everywhere, telling women they should die just cus they don’t fit what media claims they should all look like. You have taken it to an UNETHICAL level. Looks will always matter but not to the exaggerated extent you do
Mentioning patriarchy = automatically false.. Feminism is cancer, end of story..
@worldscolide You're cancer.
It only affects you because you pay attention for it. You could ignore all those idiots and still find a man that would like the new you.
@Mellontikos keep in mind that boys are raised to believe that women should all look a certain high standard in order for him to think she’s worthy of any respect at all. I have seen countless guys think that girls should be put up to a much higher standard in terms of physical appearance compared to men
Tell me how that's different from men? Would you date a guy shorter than you? Would you date a guy who's overweight?
@Mellontikos women would gladly go out with a guy who doesn’t even comb his hair or dresses up for a date. Women would gladly date a guy who just wears a random faded polo t shirt and dirty jeans to a bar. It is more socially acceptable for men to smell and wear the same Shirt two days in a Row but if a woman is seen wearing the same blouse two nights in a row , she gets looked down upon. Women are the ones dressing up for bars and dates, not men. Women are the ones fanatically spending hours doing makeup and preparing her outfits for dates. It is predominately women that are fanatically spending extravagant amounts of money buying makeup , lotions , anti aging creams , shopping for clothes , shoes. Brainwashed to believe that she must look as beautiful as possible if she doesn’t want to be looked down upon by men. It is mainly women feeding the diet industry buying diet pills going on starvation diets. Women are much more likely to be insecure about their bodies than men. Don’t come on here with your BS Ans tell me standards for physical appearance is the same as it is for men
I get that you have a bias and anger towards men, but here's the truth:1. The reason women spend all that time, money and effort to look good, is not because of some required goal to look as good as possible for all men. The real reason is because women want to attract the best looking men. 2. Most men would not give an absolute shit if you wore the same clothes 3 times in a row. We usually don't notice those things. The pressure for that is coming from OTHER WOMEN and Women's media (Women's mags, etc). 3. Most men, also would not give a shit if you wear make up or not. The difference here is that women are artificially enhancing their looks, and they like that advantage. Men can't use makeup to enhance their looks at all. Maybe a little, but what little me could do is simply to cover skin imperfections. The whole array of make up options for women are meant to make the woman more sexually aroused, which is why men find it attractive. The reason you hate it is because you know you'll lose the advantage of looking 1 or 2 points higher than your actual real look, and hence will have to date down to men not as attractive.
@Mellontikos you’re fucking lying. Women will always buy more beauty products than men , not because we like to, but because we need to. You don’t see men going overhyped on skincare , you don’t see all men being obsessed with gym memberships. You don’t see more men than women going for plastic surgery. You don’t see more men going on starvation diets or taking diet pills than women. You don’t see men constantly being insecure of their own bodies or calling themselves fat ( when they are not). You don’t see men crying over a bunch of white hairs or wrinkles
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I love short haired ones.
Gay men are more likely to be effeminate. Could just as easily say that feminine mindset causes it. Correlation is not causation. Also I doubt women are more accepting seeing as how women are statistically more likely to view most men as below average
True, but women are the ones buying the mags.
women are vain in nature lol
Men are vain in other ways as well.
Or the people who buy them.
Sadly that is true. Sex appeal is a major factor in most things it seems. Looks should be secondary, the person behind the looks should be the primary concern.