Studies show that women shame permiscuios women more than men. Why are women so insecure about other women's body count?

[Vegasrunner]

[EricSummer]

It's female competition. Most women are aiming at an exclusive long-term relationship with a man. The man must make an effort to get them and sex does not come easily.

This strategy works less well if there are promiscuous women around who allow easy access to sex. It reduces the value of this resource.

[Vegasrunner]

@ericsummer Yea that males perfect sense. I've always believed that it frustrates women so much because it takes away a lot of the sexual leverage from them.

[Anemone978]

Yes this exactly the problem and why I hate them..

[EricSummer]

@Anemone978 - It does not make very much sense, though. Would you want a man who goes for easy casual sex? I think those of us who are looking for love can relax about this behavior regardless of our gender. These people do not concern us.

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 Hate is a strong word, but I makes sense why women feel this way.

[Anemone978]

The problem is most guys will go for something easy.. and it is hard to pick out who is good and who is bad, with so much of this hookup crap. A lot of guys won't even bother to get to know you because they know there is a girl who will put out with one swipe of an app..

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 That us because outside of sex what other tangible value do women really offer to men?

[Anemone978]

Obviously nothing..

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 Then you have your answer.

[Anemone978]

Yeah so that is why we hate the ones that hand the pussy out.. that is all it is LOL

[EricSummer]

@Anemone978, @Vegasrunner - I'm glad you agree with each other, but I find it too cynical. Both women and men obviously have a lot more to offer than sex. For example, a woman and a man still make the best team to raise kids. They can also be great companions and love may grow between them. I guess you know that anyway and just like playing cold-hearted.

[Anemone978]

Yeah I know but if I disagree with him he just goes on and on about how I am wrong LOL

[Vegasrunner]

@ericsummer In a vacuum there is truth to your statement however your original response highlights that on some level you also understand this concept. While women may have other value sex is there primary agency to attract and retain a man. The addition of permiscuios women only make it more difficult. Society doesn't like to admit it but one of the reasons s the divorce rates is so high among "celebrity" couples is because it is on of the only dynamics where men receive as much or more attention than the woman he is with. This reduces the incentive of the man to put up w/ female nature in a relationship. This also explains why women initiate divorce at a much higher rate than men as if regular women tend to date regular men and the average man doesn't nearly have as many options.

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 I simply provide tangible factual evidence your ability to handle such evidence is completely up to you.

[Anemone978]

A lot of times you don't.. In this discussion I don't really see much wrong with what you are saying but most others you have plenty of holes, you just think in your mind you are always absolutely right, so no need to waste my time anymore trying to change your opinion.

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 That is certainly a belief you are welcome to hold, I would simply like to point out that the only difference between this POV of mine and others us that you personally agree w/ it. So perhaps the issue isn't me rather your ability to digest information that you disagree with.

[Anemone978]

Well it isn't me coming on to your answers to disagree it is always you I just write my opinions.. so I don't have issues with as many POV as you do.. and I have yet to see a fact from you besides your so called "statistics" that you like to throw around..

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 You're literally commenting on a post authored by me rn. Questioning someone's opinion does not constitute "having an issue" reality is most women aren't used to having theirs challenged and certainly not by a man, because of that when it happens especially over an anonymous forum the tendency is to behave the way you do. You're never going to be able to "see a fact" because like many You're only focused on things that support your POV.

[Anemone978]

Yeah but I was talking to the opinion poster originally, not you.. and yes, yes.. all I see is blah blah blah...

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 Thank you for proving my point. This helps.

[Anemone978]

Mhhmm keep acting superior.. Mr. Vegas

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 TY, I appreciate the kind words.

[Anemone978]

Yeah you are welcome.. You probably don't hear them all that often :)

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 Only every day. It's unfortunate you're not surrounded w/ people that respect you.

[Anemone978]

I don't need to surround my self with people who 'ass kiss' me I am perfectly fine to stand on my own.. but yes I am surrounded by people who actually love me and don't need to constantly feed my ego in the hopes of getting something from me, like you do.

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 Im not quite sure what that has to do w/ anything as I simply acknowledged the compliment you provided me. One thing that you'll learn if you improve is that people want to surround themselves around successful people. I can understand you being "fine" as the world is made up of mostly average people. Successful people like myself look to Elevate others which is why we receive the kind of compliments we do.

[Anemone978]

The thing is I didn't compliment you anywhere. unfortunately you are just so delusional you take insults as compliments.. so if you are actually being complimented by others it is only by people who want something from you.. Other than that you too are just average because you have yet to prove you are an actual successful person and I am assuming you won't because you actually ain't as successful as you claim to be.

[Vegasrunner]

@Anemone978 Yea you did earlier and I thanked you then and will thank you again. Of you feel the need to hurl insults go ahead as most women aren't witty enough for that. Obviously people want something from me that's what makes me a man of value. I prove I'm successful everyday to those that are fortunate enough to be around me IRL. It's unfortunate you have to spend you life proving your success to others but if you work hard enough perhaps you can make something of yourself.

[pink_blah]

If i may ask, what study specifically?

[EricSummer]

I can contribute one reference:

Naomi K. Muggleton, Sarah R. Tarran, Corey L. Fincher, Who punishes promiscuous women? Both women and men are prejudiced towards sexually-accessible women, but only women inflict costly punishment, Evolution and Human Behavior, Volume 40, Issue 3, 2019, Pages 259-268, ISSN 1090-5138, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2018.12.003 (https://www. sciencedirect. com/science/article/pii/S1090513818303064)

[Potteplante]

Because toxic feminity is a thing.