I'm a southeast Asian girl and I am extremely insecure with Caucasian girls because of their pretty face and I don't look as pretty. What must I do?

[sarahemilyyy]

This feeling comes on and off, and when it comes, I can't focus on my surrounding and normal activities. It takes a heavy toll on my daily activities. I have tanned skin, flat wide nose bushy eyebrows and weird black hair, and small hooded eyes. When I smile, my nose becomes effin' wider. I can't help but to envy blonde hair, bigger huge colored eyes, thinner and pointier nose, better eyebrows, better facial structure. Nobody likes wide, flat nose. It causes me to be depressed when I can't fit in. I am so sad.

[llazada]

I agree with what andy said
You must absolutelt know that beauty is subjective !! You're being harsh on yourself just bcz maybe now is looking at you so you're just bashing yourself and that affects your selfconfidence.
You're beautiful ! So try accepting yourself or at least try learning to accept yourself.. in the end you're southeast Asian and beauty isn't perceiced the same all over the world and between different races amd ethnicoties. Self confidence plays a really HUGE role in attractiveness !!

[sarahemilyyy]

here in southeast asia, looking caucasian is considered pretty

[llazada]

Quite sad and unfortunate to have a culture that looks down at its own ethnicity and consider itself inferior.
You gotta get yourself out of this narrow mindset... you can't change how you created, can't change your genes or DNA.. so you gotta learn to accept yourself.
Beauty is not everything !

[jshm2]

Yes you're sad because you're living up to false ideals.

I can't be a furry or look like a cat. But that doesn't mean I can't enjoy what is within my grasp of both.

Stop trying to be something you're not and be the best of what you can be. You'll be much happier with yourself and authentic to others. Nothing worse than Indians trying to be other races.

[Kas19]

Oh no :/ I'm sorry you feel that way. Everyone carries beauty differently. No one has to look one specific way to be beautiful. I'm sure you're very beautiful, you just need to accept it. Comparing yourself to others will only make you feel worse about yourself.

[Spade07]

Well you're either some racist white dude pretending to be a girl or some sad girl who has no self-worth or confidence. They funny thing is, I find white guys seem to like your type more than white women. White men love Asian and Latinas. Everybody does. Black, White, everybody. Just because euro beauty standards have consumed the world doesn't mean that their features are better. Plenty of them wish they had skin like yours. It's just the western world is on top right now. Same as Africa once was with Ancient Kemet or even the whole Africa. Or same as Roman empire was, or the greeks. Romans called northern Europeans pigs. Just because the features are different than what you see on tv or everyday doesn't make them less than or better than. It's all subjective not objective and highly influenced by society and who is the most powerful countries in the world at that time.

[ohshee]

Wait wait wait first of all you have no reason to be depressed why because you're absolutely beautiful the best part about you is it when you look deep into your eyes you see the beauty within and that radiates to the outside I think you are hot you are sexy and you are beautiful and then add on top of that there's something very special about you I would love to chat with you just to find out what it is cuz I'm curious now that yet you are fine don't let your mind tell you anything different

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think you are a pretty girl and it's no dealbreaker I love women/ girls who are Asian and I think that you just need to gain more confidence in yourself? (( Hugs ))

[Kaneki05]

Most of my girlfriends have been Asian. My bestfriend lives in Brunei she's hot. Your insecurity is just that an insecurity not a fact.

[abc3643]

Do nothing because there is nothing to do. Your face is actually rather lovely. No boy will ever think you are unattractive, that's for sure.

[andy530]

I would work on changing the way you see yourself. You are a very beautiful girl and don’t have to feel the insecurity when you’re around Caucasian girls. Do you have a therapist or someone you trust to talk to?

[awebee]

Way too hard on your self.. n please don't emulate other girls don't be in a huge hurry to get the attention of boys. Be yourself.. dare to be different.. take your time...

[UnknownGagsUser]

I'm kind of feeling the same sometime

[sarahemilyyy]

:'( same

[SilverRain92]

You should work with it. Having inferiority complex towards Caucasian girls is not a good thing

[Sam_The_Savage]

I agree with you..
You look terrible

[sarahemilyyy]

can you pls tell me what about me is terrible? maybe I can fix it through natural ways or surgeries?

[Sam_The_Savage]

No don't do surgery.
Just change hairstyle. Change the style of wearing clothes. Smile when e click pic. Build confidence on yourself.

[msc545]

Maybe consider plastic surgery for your nose?

[sarahemilyyy]

Hmm yeah. Do you think that southeast Asian nose is not pretty as well?

[msc545]

I think its nice, but if it bothers you, you should have it changed,

[Waldoe]

I think Asians are much sexier than white girls...

[pokenstroke]

You are pretty