I suppose it depends what you compare it to. When I attended Jr. collage, I was told by a very attractive woman that "I was average looking". I was thrilled.
Honestly speaking I am below average looking guy, and i have been told this many times, but i never got hurted , coz i know this is the reality, so let's face it.
Well, to begin with, I don't know why someone would tell someone else that they were 'average' looking, unless you asked someone what they thought? Why am I on here this time of night?
The truth often hurts. The only inoculation to this is to be honest with yourself. Easier said than done, but if you know you are average looking, like the vast majority of people are, then it should hurt so bad. You just say "I know" and move on.
I agree with both your sentences. I know that I am average but I want to be considered as handsome so I would be sad to hear it from some women. But on the other hand if I am average then at least I am not ugly.
I would tell them nah Get your eyes checked cause u r blind if u think all of this is average.💁♂️ Your prob just negging me so u can have a chance with this 🍆 😂😂😂
Graphic fictional content warning: Is the person who has this opinion in a hospital bed having just had their face smashed in by a truck? Anyone who would say that to another person is lacking maturity.
Unattractive people also have "high" standards when it comes dating. They have to date the most attractive person and will never get a chance especially with their nasty attitudes
Seeing as most people. Men & women are not much more or less then average I don't have an issue with it. My feelings aren't so sensitive as I'm hurt by it.
Although who cares? When you meet the right guy he won't think that about you anyway. Personality absolutely plays a part in how attractive people are.
Even if you are conventionally attractive, you most likely will be average for most people. (the average group tends to be bigger in people's minds than the pretty/ugly)
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I suppose it depends what you compare it to. When I attended Jr. collage, I was told by a very attractive woman that "I was average looking". I was thrilled.
Honestly speaking I am below average looking guy, and i have been told this many times, but i never got hurted , coz i know this is the reality, so let's face it.
I've been described as everything from a "B-minus" to "stunning." I think it all depends on how much of my butt is showing :)
Well, to begin with, I don't know why someone would tell someone else that they were 'average' looking, unless you asked someone what they thought? Why am I on here this time of night?
If it did I’d have to question my own stupidity! Why does that persons opinion matter…. More so why are they that bothered to tell me that?
The truth often hurts. The only inoculation to this is to be honest with yourself. Easier said than done, but if you know you are average looking, like the vast majority of people are, then it should hurt so bad. You just say "I know" and move on.
I agree with both your sentences. I know that I am average but I want to be considered as handsome so I would be sad to hear it from some women. But on the other hand if I am average then at least I am not ugly.
I bet you're handsome!!
@3QOOs Haha. I don't think so. But I am feeling flattered to hear something like that from a beautiful girl like you.
Thank you but I can tell you look amazing, don't look down on yourself:)
I would tell them nah Get your eyes checked cause u r blind if u think all of this is average.💁♂️ Your prob just negging me so u can have a chance with this 🍆 😂😂😂
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Average is boring I’m a peacock u gotta let me fly!
It wouldn't bother me. I'm comfortable with my looks.
Nope zero as I’m likely below and would feel good about it.
of all the things another person can say, that’s the most inconsequential
yeah
but I don't give a fuck what others think of me
what I think of myself is what it matters
@15_debo excellent attitude and so very true
@ChrisMaster69 thanks
@15_debo no problem.
Have a chat to @karaspara she’s great at attitude 😂😂
@ChrisMaster69 oo
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Is the person who has this opinion in a hospital bed having just had their face smashed in by a truck? Anyone who would say that to another person is lacking maturity.
Nah because whenever I get called ugly or average looking those people are not that good looking themselves.
i've noticed that myself
Unattractive people also have "high" standards when it comes dating. They have to date the most attractive person and will never get a chance especially with their nasty attitudes
i've noticed especially with fat ugly guys thinking they can get supermodels and get pissed when only fat chicks are attracted to them
Seeing as most people. Men & women are not much more or less then average I don't have an issue with it. My feelings aren't so sensitive as I'm hurt by it.
Beauty is subjective what one person likes might not do it for others so no I don't care whether someone thinks I'm attractive or not
i dont care. my only thoughts are why people with below average everything feel the need to rate anyone? but hey thats me
No, but only because of the number of humans that have called me ugly. So, many would say that's a step in the right direction.
Lol I got told I was an 8 minimum by a guy and I got silly thinking well why only an 8? 😆 so yes I definitely understand where you are coming from.
Although who cares? When you meet the right guy he won't think that about you anyway. Personality absolutely plays a part in how attractive people are.
I wouldn’t. Mostly because a very large percentage of people are average and below. We just don’t notice due to our own insecurities.
That's the expected result, why be offended?
Even if you are conventionally attractive, you most likely will be average for most people. (the average group tends to be bigger in people's minds than the pretty/ugly)