How attractive do you find yourself?

Question

I'd say I'm average atm. Putting on weight made me less attractive but when I'm skinny I'm good looking

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

I don’t think you’ll mistake me for anyone you’d see on a magazine cover, haha, but I think I look pretty good. I got in pretty good shape these last few months, that helps.

I went to a concert about a month ago and was in the mosh pit with no shirt, and I look over and see these three pretty blonde girls, and one of them is giving me the eyes, HARD. I look over a few minutes later, one of the others does the same. Another look over, they’re whispering to each other and smiling at me. At this point my confidence (and ego lmao) are on a hundred million billion trillion, especially being 42, I’m like “STILL GOT IT😎” The show comes to an end, the ladies start walking my way…. and then I realize they have a fourth person in tow, the probably 50-ish man who was DEFINITELY someone’s dad. I think he knew what was happening, because he shot me a look, not of anger, but almost a silent plea of “please don’t, man…. that’s my daughter.”😂😂😂 I felt for him, honestly, I would lose my mind if I had a hot daughter who had just come of age and every dude was throwing game at her, haha. But yeah, I really wanted to go hit the showers after that, lmfao, cuz now I don’t know if these girls are 20 or 16. I’ll never forget his expression😂 But anyway…. I don’t know if those girls were underage or are just barely legal, I wasn’t really thinking on that level, I kind of assumed them to be college-aged based on their appearance, but I know that I would’ve been all-in on any of them if I was still a young fella and their age, whatever that age is. So that alone is all the ego boost I need, haha, despite them being WAY too young for me, even if 18+.

So I’m pretty sure I still have it together, if I ever had it. I’m happy with my face, I’d go for a smaller nose, maybe, and a girl I dated once roasted me for having a thin upper lip😂 So I’m not without flaws, of course, and being blonde is hit or miss with women, that’s probably my biggest hurdle, those women committed to the idea of “tall, dark, and handsome.” My body fat % is as good as I’ve ever had it, I just need to hit the weights hard this winter, I lost muscle during the pandemic and losing the fat as me a little lighter in the ass than I want to be, I’m like 175 at 6’2, I’m shooting for like 185-190. But it still an improvement aesthetically, I just cut weight before bulking up because summer was coming as I was starting. Now I can enjoy carbohydrates again😝

So if I had to put a number on myself, I guess I’d say I’m a 7 in my eyes, 7 being your run of the mill attractive person you might see going about your day. 8 is reserved for the Everyday Life All-Stars, 9+ is model status who you might not see in person even once a year, depending where you live. I think I bottom out at 5, decidedly average, I don’t think anyone will see me and be “DAMN, that dude is UGLY!”, haha.

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

I'd say a humble 9. Could be a 10 if I can lose a bit of belly fat and trim my hair a bit.

Not that I see myself that way but I keep getting told I'm good looking and it gets old trying to downplay it and say "nooo I'm average"

But just to be fair some people here rated themselves too harshly, trust me the standard is not as high as it seems, you don't have to be Brad Pitt's long lost twin to be good looking, there are tons of looks and feels you can go for that will do wonders to your image.

bubbles328 · Accepted Answer

When I was younger I think I rated quite highly. I am now 35 and while I do work on me I don’t always have time to work on me. I’m not skinny though I’m not over weight. I don’t wear makeup and I scowl a lot which I just can’t help 😂 it’s me though. I prematurely greyed but I die my hair so it’s not hugely noticeable but I don’t look my age I look younger. I do however have cute 20 something year olds chasing me and I’m actually with a 26 year old now so I don't know maybe I’m putting myself down. The 20 something year olds that Pursue me now are a lot better than the guys that asked me out in my 20s when I would have rated myself highly.

aWes0MeNeSs · Accepted Answer

It definitely fluctuates. I think in general, around average or slightly above when I'm feeling good about myself. Sometimes, I feel below average, too. Never really on either extreme of the spectrum, though.

Irnwhdbsj · Answer

How about 10/10 if I did self care consistently, didn't overeat, washed my hair, worked out, and put on nice clothes, 9/10 if I did the first 2 of that list and my hair happens to look nice and I have nice lazy/working/learning clothes clean, 5/10 if I'm a disheveled mess.

GoodManDave · Answer

I would say I'm ugly to below average (maybe a four or five). That's on a good day.

If I got some surgery, dyed the hair, lost 50 pounds, worked out, earned 50K+ a year, it might push me to a seven. But I think most women would probably rate me (assuming they were "being nice" or they were forced to do real, positive numbers instead of negatives) at about 1 or 2, with room to go up to about 5 or 6 if I somehow did all that work.

Bricealan · Answer

Alright you guys and girls, I don't want to see any GAG guys and girls describing themselves as 'ugly' or 'very ugly' ! That just isn't so ! You are probably very young people and do not have a very good self image.

I see that 15% of you described yourselves that way, and I find that very depressing, as that hurts me personally to hear that that many of you feel that way.

Bruce

Nik1hil · Answer

Haha... - 10...
With a face like mine..😱 I don't even have to buy Condoms..🍆 Because I know.. There is no way I am getting consent.. 😢

And I don't think Rape is an option.. 😭

Lucky me. .. MY RIGHT HAND cannot get pregnant.. 🖐️😂🤣😂

Mavie · Answer

when im dressed up and all is well i find myself one of the most beautiful women in the world.. in the normal days i find myself cute but now I've learned to accept myself my flaws .
as long as my family and my boyfriend think im pretty then im fine

LavenderLuna · Answer

Eh sometimes I think I’m pretty and sometimes I look terrible so it’s probably about in between. People tell me I’m pretty sometimes, but not so much anymore. Maybe it’s because I’ve put on some weight.

Sakiyamoon · Answer

I'd like to think I'm pretty and likeable. In my eyes everyone is beautiful and higher in rank than me lol it's difficult to stay confident with so many beautiful well made ladies out there 😶

FR_Ruby · Answer

I was surprised almost half the people said average but then I realized that that's what average means and therefore they're just honest. omg, i bet you're still better than average though, and your partner will certainly see you that way!

Jake99999 · Answer

I don’t rate myself and walk around thinking about that. I think I look fine. I work out to stay in shape and be healthy. I am with a beautiful woman, and we are madly in love - so if what I got is good enough for her, I am happy.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Vanity is a piece of furniture in my home, not a shortcoming in my life. It is not how big the smile I wear in my face but how I use the smile that matters. A sincere smile is powerful and attractive mojo 🤔🇺🇸♂️.

cloudspy · Answer

I think I'm good looking. I'm aging well. I take pride in my appearance. I look after my figure and health. I think my personality is pretty good to. All in all I reckon I'm a good catch.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I was haawt when i was in shape. Lol so like a 7/8. But covid was like ima turn that hot to cold 🤣 So i gotta get back in shape cause im like a 5 rn

just_a_potato · Answer

I look good enough not to die alone, so not complaining 🤷🏾‍♀️

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I consider myself attractive to the point of being accused of conceit.

SLRK3 · Answer

I dint see myself as hot but as maybe an average looking person. I'm very insecure and I have no clue why I'm answering this question!

Vikkrram · Answer

People have told me that... and they told me in a very decent way... so if i am like this rhen no problem...

forthright · Answer

Normally, at some angles (less rare), I'm a 4. In others (rarer), I'm around a 6 or 7. So I'd say, for the most part, I'm average.

HawkPerception · Answer

Good looking (7-8). I would say slightly above average... closer to 7 than 8.

MzAsh · Answer

I’d say I’m good looking. People say I look 25 and I’m in good shape. can't complain!

readyplayer001 · Answer

i am comfortable with average, that is not over stating or understating it

DCooper · Answer

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Ironic_Method · Answer

Average. I'm fit, but most people don't know that. I dont feel like I'm any more or less attractive than the next guy and it's never been an issue when trying to get dates.

CurlyGirl42 · Answer

Average overall.. my body is maybe a 7-8 and face 4-5, on bad days 3 :D

Mot-Mot · Answer

I'm average in looks, probably height helps me a bit, if thats a good thing.

Passion_Devil · Answer

8 but with some more effort I will be a ten. I need to be a bit more stricter when it comes to me. I feel good. I feel great. But I can feel greater

kstout6 · Answer

Definitely an 8, unless I put on a suit and dress up, then a 9. I just do not dress up much.

Lj0011 · Answer

Im a red head male what do you think after being told by society a million times red heads are disgusting.

Anonymous · Answer

Average. I bet a lot of women would find me appealing if I was one of the last few fit guys left on the planet. My face may be ugly but I've caught women looking at my body and into my beautiful eyes before

ManHater · Answer

I think I'm "okay" but women still give me funny looks.

Jjcatt · Answer

In my eyes I’m cute as anything, but I’m not sure what ladies see

eminde · Answer

Tbh I really don’t know Either I’m way down on the spectrum or way up🤷‍♂️

Jlegacy · Answer

If there is a number called "as attractive as God", that would be my number.

Ekvark · Answer

I definitely see myself in 4-5 range, but it also depends how I'm feeling.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I don’t know I’ve always just seen myself as an average joe looks wise.

HighBoi · Answer

I look good, I'm at least a 7 on a good day. If I weren't fucked in the head I could translate that into attention from women.

Anonymous · Answer

Some days I look at my body and think ‘urgh your ugly’ because of my weight then some good days I think your alright you. So really it depends on how I feel I am never gonna be perfect and have a six pack but that me 🤷🏻‍♂️

Anonymous · Answer

Very ugly 1-2 I look like Gollum from Lord of the Rings

FatherJack · Answer

Bog standard average , as I am not looking for validation , don't care anyway.

FreeOhSeven · Answer

It would be either conceited or sad to choose anything else.

JohnSmityJohnson · Answer

I look like Gollum. Actually, Gollum is better looking.

Den1971 · Answer

I'm going into my middle ages. Going to keep it sexy... Always. It's about constant growth.

The_Outlaw · Answer

Let's just say that I avoid mirrors at all costs. Ugly history.

samael_kmarty · Answer

I am 5'11 and just 40kg😅😅 way underweight, can't even walk, run.

esqueleto94 · Answer

Average, i usually get called cute while my sister gets called pretty

red324 · Answer

what ever happened to all those rate my body sites?

clampfan101 · Answer

Meh. Average. :/ (Any ladies reading this want to give an opinion?)

Grubhub · Answer

I’d say I’m a top considering I attract mostly latinas. And everyone knows they’re the most beautiful women in the world

Anonymous · Answer

An 8 but the attraction filter on TikTok says I’m a 9

InferiorElegy · Answer

Saying I'm a 1 is overly generous. I see myself just as ugly as everyone else sees me.

m33lad · Answer

I’ll tell you the same answer I gave every girl I’m negative minus -10!

BareNecessary · Answer

I very month to month but I stay around an 8 on my bleh days. The messy does me well sometimes

Paulychicago10 · Answer

You know every person is gonna be modest and give themselves something practical

ManikMike69 · Answer

I'm pretty much model material but with the "bad boy" flair ! 6'1" 44" shoulders and worked out body.

Anonymous · Answer

Good looking if my teeth were better and my jaw more aligned 😅

Anonymous · Answer

Used to think higher of myself, gained a lot of weight

Cherry234 · Answer

I'd say I'm good looking

Anonymous · Answer

I've been told I'm a good looking guy but I'm short (only 5'4") so I'd say 3-4 (ugly)

CordetteMonet · Answer

I'd say that I am average. About a 5.

douride2 · Answer

Like most people I am only average.

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

I’d say I just scrape a 5, but 4 on a bad day lol

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