Do you men really want a woman with a waist like this?

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StrongMale · Accepted Answer

Hello bloomingcutie,
To answer your question, let me tell you a quick story... Many years ago I went to a strip club one night. Lots of beautiful, sexy women took the stage that evening and stripped naked and danced. Most of them had gorgeous, perfectly fit bodies, and yes, they were sexy and wonderful to look at. And then "she" took the stage. "She" was a woman with a little 'extra' padding on her frame. She didn't have the 'perfect' body most of the other girls had. Her body had a little belly and a little more in the ass department. And her tits were natural, and on the small side. Without being impolite, her naked body was, let's say, "average at best". But when that woman started to move, oh my god, all the guys in the club, including me, sat up and took notice. She danced and writhed and grinded and wiggled with so much uninhibited female sexual prowess and confidence that I think every guy in the room was transfixed and totally aroused. She was so unbelievably convinced of her own undeniable sexiness, that it made every man who was watching her want her. She was simply irresistible. I have never forgotten her to this day. I still remember her body, how it looked, how it moved, and how she totally owned it. She was awesome. And so, to answer your question... although a female body with a waist like your photo portrays can indeed catch a guy's eye, it is not so much the shape of a woman's body, but rather how sexy she believes she is in the body she has, that determines how sexy she is to a man. Hope my answer provides a useful male perspective!

dangerDoge · Accepted Answer

From a global perspective, ideal waist-hip-ratio (abbreviated WHR) varies greatly among cultures. To my knowledge on the subject, ideal WHR for females according to studies on Western audiences is around.7. To note, .7 is significantly less extreme than the picture you have shown. In non-Western cultures, it’s even less extreme than.7 too. Of course, there are individual differences, sure, but from a scientific perspective according to studies I’ve read, I can pretty confidently say that most men do not prefer women with a WHR like that pic. (I’m sure I can dig up a source link if really needed to.)

From a personal perspective, I would also go with.7 as an “ideal” with some leeway on that as “good.” That picture provided has much too intense of a WHR to be considered pleasant by my eyes / personal perspective.

Granted, I’m sure there are likely some who find that nice, but I am for better or worse not one of them.

Kayleighjo32 · Accepted Answer

I mean thats not her real waistline is it? she's in a corset so it looks a bit extreme and painful and it looks photoshopped to hell. However I would imagine men would like that kind of body type- Slim curvy, maybe not so scary and unnatural looking though.

Sarahr123 · Accepted Answer

My waist is like that probably smaller I mean it’s 23 inches and my hips are 34.

Diodoro · Answer

It's the same thing as girls being attracted to guys with muscle. They like a guy who has muscle and works out, but there is a line for when it becomes too much muscle and it becomes unappealing for girls

Pretty much universally girls are attracted to men who have muscle oh, but there is a line. Similarly pretty much universally men are attracted to girls with slim waist, but there is a line.

I've seen a lot of girls who used waist trainers that look very sexy. For the girls that take it too far or the ones who are already skinny and trying to get even more slender are a drop in the bucket

You're far more likely to see girls who are overweight using it, to pull their fat in so that they look more appealing even though they're overweight then you are to see a girl who is in decent shape to use it and make it extreme slender

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all. Not for me, and not for most men I dont think.
Now most men will likely tell you they think a "healthy" looking girl is most attractive... but I don't know if they know what a healthy-looking girl looks like. lol.
As for me? Shit, big women, small women, medium women, I'm a fan of the whole genre. lol. I've dated really skinny women and found their bodies pleasing, dated fat women and liked the look of their bodies just as much, and I've dated women somewhere in between.

But if I'm being honest... of all different female body types, I think I would be LEAST attracted to the one in question (good thing for me that's literally not a body type that exists lol.)

Bismarck_96 · Answer

"You bring the corsets we bring the cinches no one wants a waist over... (rope tightens) 9 inches"

Actually having a tightened waist is to dangerous your lungs won't be taking as much oxygen and probably your digestive system will have trouble passing food through it does look nice but it's not totally worth squeezing your ribcage and insides

"But we can not guarantee that you'll still be walking over 40"

You may or may not make it past 40 if you wear corsets for long periods of time but look on the bright side thic is good dont worry about your waist size just keep it natural

HerKittysMeant2B8 · Answer

No we don't need a woman to have a waste like that for us to be attracted to them and that's not exactly what we go for anyway men want a woman who's healthy that can live in an active lifestyle with them and not end up dying by the time they're fucking 40 and not be able to be there for their kids that's what that's all about...

So my advice is don't take that personally and basically try to be healthy!

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No, that is unrealistic. What we want is more like this:

HellGeist · Answer

I don't. Looks weird and unnatural.

I care more about her being moderately attractive (to me) and most importantly a good, loyal person IF I'm going to take her serious at all.

Weight is fungible for me depending on distribution and proportionality. I'm attracted to many sizes and colors. Just needs to not be so obese she's unhealthy. Or not anorexic.

In order for me to fall in love, I have to be into her mind and personality, otherwise what is the point beyond sex?

bolverk · Answer

Not really. but one of the subconscious cues men look for is a waist to hip ratio of.70 and waist to chest ratio of.67 and that is without body-shapers like the one in the photo, they are clue to if a woman can carry a child to term, deliver and care for that child.
Of course this is all subjective and will vary from race/culture to race/culture.

Anonymous · Answer

God no, a corset is a super unhealthy body modification and honestly it really doesn't look better than a natural waistline. If they are doing it because that's the way they want to look, and it's not extreme it's not a deal breaker, but it's not something I actively seek out in my partners.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Hell no. Women like these.  It only takes about 18000-30000 squats and variations. Or about a year or two 😗 Both healthy and hot

t-8900 · Answer

wtf? thats creepy af! where the meat at?  WHERE THE MEAT?

Honesttguy · Answer

Why? Looks sad that women become so delusional by their own shit then project it as if its mens fault.

MountAverage · Answer

Nope. Looks horrendous. No women has a waiste like this. These pictures are (poorly) photoshopped. There are some women who get insane surgery to look like that, and they look like creatures straight from a horror movie.

I-C3_ME · Answer

No, I'd probably be worried about the girl. Cuz I wouldn't want her to be in pain. It just looks really uncomfortable and a waist of money to try to achieve it (pun intended)

Subarugirl · Answer

Lol men really just want a girl who will cook their food and suck their dick...

sean1234 · Answer

If that's the way she looks without a corset, which is generally not the case with many fit women, then sure.

weebbutt · Answer

who wouldn't? expecting it is one thing, liking it is another

McLlovin · Answer

We want fit and healthy, Not waist like a toothpick where your organs have too shift to make your waist smaller

JCrockett · Answer

Yeah. Maybe not that exact shape, but I like narrow waists very much.

Mangospacho · Answer

Organs removed to achieve this waist: Gallbladder Pancreas One Kidney Half of liver Half of stomach No. No thanks.

Leonharted · Answer

No. I like the hour glass figure, but a wasp waist is a bit extreme.

s10sleeper · Answer

No, in fact I prefer that women not have a perfect body, a small amount of chub can be sexy

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No that looks weird. Thats not what we mean by "hourglass figure"..

jshm2 · Answer

That looks like photoshop. Cut a corset waist like that isn't done for men - it's done for fashion.

I_Am_Sazerac · Answer

Doesn't really matter to me as long as it isn't surgically altered (unless it was life threatening or a reconstruction from injury).

Chris_68 · Answer

I don't want my girlfriend to have such a tight waist generally. But I want to lace her that tight from time to time.

Seangreen · Answer

It's not like I expect that or anything but I wouldn't mind it but half the time I'm not even paying attention to shit like that

Nigjt · Answer

No not really it doesn't look very comfortable to here but looks nice to me an I wouldn't want her to bed unhappy just to look nice in that way for me. God Bless

Anonymous · Answer

Of course not. Some extra fluffy softness feels much better and it often means big and good looking curves :)

RealMarek · Answer

Not really. Something closer to the ideal waist-to-hip ratio of 0.7 would be better.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Absolutely NOT!! What's wrong with just having a normal waist?

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

That look too fake and even too fragile. When in bed I might be scared she'd suddely snap or break in half

_Lucian · Answer

Nope. I prefer girls with straighter athletic bodies, not like a man's, but not super curvy either.

loveslongnails · Answer

Not THIS guy. That photo is way out of my preferential proportion.

worldscolide · Answer

Why would I want someone who looks like she has, had several organs and ribs removed?

John_Doesnt · Answer

I don't care about the waist, but the boobs look great.

syskerully · Answer

Narrow waists are hot but a girl with both kidneys intact... unbeatable.

rebeliouse · Answer

@bloomingcutie no thats thinner than my cock so how will it go in her?

anylolone · Answer

Nope, both the one implied by the shirt and the actual one which elbows are behind. lol! Had to make the joke.

TsAubreyKate · Answer

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EndlessVoid20 · Answer

I need a new corset, yes I do like looking like that

clampfan101 · Answer

Too thin. Is she wearing something to make it look thinner than it is? It doesn’t look natural.

OddBeMe · Answer

So many times I’ve refused women begging me to fck them just because their waist wasn’t like this…

TheAfrikan · Answer

Not really do i need a woman who has got that waist. But i prefer one who looks after her self well not just that waist.

shanshu · Answer

God no, looks like her organds would be squashed together

whosnumber1 · Answer

gross, that waist is way too big and her tits are way too small...

imfreeze95 · Answer

Hell no that looks like she’s done something harmful to herself

PeterSmith1983 · Answer

Can't really see how her waist really is with that corset on

DevinAM · Answer

I can appreciate an hourglass figure, but there is such thing as too much.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@bloomingcutie I prefer an hourglass figure over dating a woman with a waist like this.

Anonymous · Answer

No, we don't. As with most of these sorts of myths, this one was created and perpetuated by women.

Anonymous · Answer

That's a bit extreme. The standard issue 36-24-36 would be just fine. Maybe something like 39-22-34.

berwise13 · Answer

I can't speak for all men but I don't want a women with that waist.

hook2115 · Answer

a narrow waist is nice, but a lovely flat tummy is exquisite!

somesoul · Answer

Boobs look like ass 😂😂 I don't know

Miristheiss · Answer

No, that looks weird and unnatural.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nah... that just look uncomfortable

Lionman95 · Answer

No, that looks unhealthy at least to me.

Markm3212 · Answer

NO... thats just deformed...

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

It looks cringe. Not good. Not preferred.

Ascarymanasks · Answer

Noooo it looks unhealthy

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