How revealing do you like your/your girl swimsuits to be?

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Realistic07 · Accepted Answer

I don’t really care. There are many things that I simply don’t have an opinion on. Some for the simple reason that I earnestly don’t care, and other for the reason that it is not my call to begin with.

This question I feel falls in the second category. The reality is that any woman that I’m with has the right to wear whatever she wants, and if I’m with her I should know by that point what type of person she is, and what styles she more so veers toward. Which brings to question…
“Why would I be with that person knowing how they choose to dress if it irks me so badly?”

My answer to that question is simply I don’t have that kind of issue therefore I am who I am with because I choose to be, and; because I appreciate them for who they are not the clothing they wear.

All said most people aren’t me, and the real thing to recognize is that we’re all human beings. We make choices, we live our lives, and in every single one of us there is Jealousy.
Its a reality no matter how big or small of who we are as people. How we mitigate jealousy, and ultimately the communication we have with our partner is what will dictate the pace of any relationship.
In other words if anyone thinks the bikini is the real problem in the scenario provided then they may not realize the scope of the relationship as a whole.

The reality is two people argue and fuss about all kinds of things. It’s like a silly little dance played around the actual issues. Issues might I add which are highly personal and individual. The problems come when people don’t share how they actually feel. In doing so the lack there of communication breeds other emotions. Jealousy, frustration, anxiety, stress, depression, anger, so on and so forth are our natural patterns when we struggle mentally with coping or dealing with something.

If you take the patterns I mentioned above, and apply them to any relationship then eventually when the problems aren’t handled properly through conversation they become silly little nonsequential things like what each other are wearing, or why one may choose to do something one way instead of the other, etc.
The reality being that through conversation those issues can be dispelled, understanding can be formed between two people, respect can then be admired and shown mutually by both. It’s OK to not be wild out, but it’s OK not to limit other people as well. The middle ground that can be found between that statement is something that comes from conversation between the two individuals in said relationship.

Everyone is different, every relationship is different, but conversation in any relationship, and the development of proper communication between two individuals and one is crucial. The bikini was only a small part of the problem.

Perspective is a trip 🤔.
Well that’s my two cents in the matter for the more or the less. Good question I hope you can bring other people to converse about this subject.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

It’s what she’s comfortable with, I really don’t care.

been to naturist beaches and camps.

it’s down to what she is happy with, she’s happy then I’m happy.

a lot of people do get hung up over beach wear etc.

also the bottom one is simply impractical for going topless which is common on most European beaches.

tiffany_g · Accepted Answer

If the water's murky my swimsuit is very revealing. I actually swim topless, since I swim in such a way that I'm submerged up to my nose in a lake that's so muddy you can't even see a foot below the surface. But once I get ready to get out I'll pull my top out of my pocket (first thing I do when I get a bathing suit is sew a pocket into it to hold my top) and put it on while I'm still neck deep.

So under water my suit reveals everything from the hips up. Out of the water you'd find vintage bras that are racier than the tops I tend to pick out and I'm a big fan of swim skirts, so I tend to look like a jogger who's about to hit the club.

MaddyJ · Accepted Answer

For me it depends where I’m going and who I’m around. If it’s just friends and it’s the beach or something, I like pretty skimpy ones. They give me a better tan and look super cute.

if I’m around my fam or other families I go for something with more coverage. That said, I like bikinis way more than one piece suits, so it’s always bikini. I just keep the thong ones for certain times and places.

Anonymous · Answer

LMAO, all these guys saying I don't care what she wears. Please, give me a break! If she dresses half naked expect tons of stares and glares and dudes trying to hit on her. That's what triggers guys then of "what the fuck". Yes, its insecurity on the guys part, but girls y'all don't have to dress half naked because you know damn well a guy is going to look. I'm in shape and girls think I'm handsome but I don't jog around the block with shorts and sneakers on and that's it, that's the difference.

People may not like this answer but its a double edged sword, where both may think its okay but its not. Impress your spouse or significant other. I feel like we want to prove to the world how rich or beautiful we are. I understand girls may read this and say OMFG ITS MY LIFE STEP OFF! You switch the roles around and girls can be quite jealous and catty if her boyfriend or husband is getting attention by other women and if he eggs on those other women by presenting himself in a sexual way much more. Hypocrisy at its finest, im sorry. I'm not perfect but things gotta change in this world.

Then again, I don't like the beach, I don't like to party, I don't like to drink or do drugs so I guess I'm a loser, ah well *shrug*

elizamichale1 · Answer

I prefer mine to be like these hey @clubmanager what do you say lol

wingattebaby16 · Answer

In the Philippines when i graduated from high school at 19yo. i got lots of angry stares from the women in my mom's village. I dint care..

DizzyDesii · Answer

Fitted with a little tummy and leg out

Paige90 · Answer

I am a nudist so I show everything without reservation

RobT312 · Answer

Whatever she wants to wear or surprise me with.
whatever she feels comfortable in... I have never been with a girl that was into super revealing, So a nice sexy bikini works for me... I guess in between your pics... more modest than pic 1 and more revealing than pic 2

ARWINGx1 · Answer

(this only applies to when my what-if/would-be girlfriend & I are in the bedroom... or someplace secluded)

As skimpy as she'd be comfortable with. (or even nude if, again, she's comfortable with it)

But "at the end of the day", whatever she wants to wear, would "override" any of my choices. After all. Her body is her property, not mine.

Wade12345 · Answer

Go as close to naked as humanly possible. I'm convinced clothing produces more violence and perversion than it prevents.

If everyone saw everyone else naked, there wouldn't be so much stereotype and misinformation about sexuality as we have today.

Curtt888 · Answer

I love it see through and or very small very small. Actually a few years ago my wife confessed that when I was at work some days she’d go to the nude beach. She’d like the feeling of men seeing her naked. There she could be anonymous. That explained why she has been changing up how she dresses.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

Nothing TOO revealing! Jesus, leaving SOMETHING ago the imagination would be nice!

Genie23 · Answer

A bikini that's not too revealing. It should cover my breasts and my butt or I would not wear them, lol.

Princess_shruti · Answer

i would say if i want to attract someone i would go with option A. but if i am with my family i would choose option B

Debbie14217 · Answer

Tops just covering my nipples and exposing therest of my breasts String bikini at most exposing most of my butt though not a thong

weysally · Answer

I actually prefer to swim naked, but on most beaches etc I just have the usual bikini type,

AviatorTom · Answer

At her age (similar to mine), my SO likes to wear a two-piece suit that is just a bit more than a bikini. Personally, I'd rather see her in a nice one-piece suit but it's what she wants to wear, and I've learned not to question that.

StrawberryShake · Answer

I like somewhere in between the two. Don't get me wrong the first one is super sexy, but I prefer to wear that stuff in private with my boyfriend and I know he would feel the same way. Modesty is so sexy

Ashleyraaiinnn · Answer

I only wear bikinis not one pieces! I don’t like complete things but I like them checking. My favourite bikinis are string bikinis

HotPinkDominatrxSlut · Answer

Mine are all very super bright pink just like everything I wear and own and very see through and of course all the men including my very dark sexy black husband loves them

SignedAutographs · Answer

Well it's not really my choice, as its not my body, right?

however, I've noticed that girls who are single, tend to dress a little more risque, as opposed to girls who are in relationships. Not sure if that's true but it's something I've noticed A LOT

aided_ · Answer

i really like swimsuits like the second one theyre what i prefer

FreyaRed · Answer

Depends if I want to swim and take some tan or I want to make a show.

ohshee · Answer

Well I can tell you this if I had the opportunity to go and talk to both of us girls I would only want to talk to one and that's the bottom one the second picture that bathing suit is so hot and it fits her so good

Bricealan · Answer

I would let her wear this, same as Eliza suggested

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I choose clothes based on colour matching and utility and not aesthetics so I would want to lower my risk of mosquito bites while still having a feminine and flimsy colour for photos.

XXblack88 · Answer

I really don't like revealing swimsuits a one piece swimsuit is ok with me

Emilyis · Answer

Mine aren't anything that a I'm ashamed of, I have a white one piece and a flourescant orange that can be seen from the moon.

Heyitstayyo · Answer

I refuse to wear any female swim suits. I am very masculine and muscular ( i do not act in a feminine way, plus feminine and masculine are bullshit made up terms) I just wear shorts or black leggings at the beach... that's if I ever going. And of course. A gym top to show off my wide back and large biceps 😊

Anonymous · Answer

If risque was on a scale of 1-10 (10 being the most risque) I would be OK with a 4 swimsuit, and my boyfriend would want me in a 12.

humanearth · Answer

Like this

rachelrazi · Answer

I like to show my abs bc I work out a lot and also I have a big butt, so love a thong bikini

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Something in the middle of the two. Although 2 is cute for a pool party so you can stroll around just with that and not need a cover up.

HawkPerception · Answer

First one is sexy and not too revealing. I'm not into micro bikinis though. I feel they might as well be nude at that point.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I like people to be comfortable in their own skin. Whatever they like is best in my opinion. If you want to be more revealing go for it if not all good too.

soe11 · Answer

First one in black good on you I think. My girlfriend love micro bikini, transparent bikini, tiny bikini and Brazilian bikini too. I endorse her to wear and give her compliment.

Makeushiver · Answer

OMG if that's you in the pic. I'm heading to Cambodia tonight. Before seeing that pic I loved eating Cambodian Food. Now I thoink I love eating Cambodian food and Cambodian girls

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

I’d be fine with whatever she wants to wear as I believe we’d be so in-sync as to know what each other’s comfort level as far as this goes.

Yeah, I went there. Call me an idealistic if you want.

kuladiamond · Answer

Not revealing at all since im pretty shy about that

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Modest is preferred.

Unless we're at a private location that's just us.

Unless we're not married yet. In which case modest is still preferred lol. Because I don't want her to turn me on too much. 😄

ImNoOne111 · Answer

I actually like one-piece swimsuits more. I find it more attractive as it hides the breasts, genitals and belly leaving a nice form on them and it also leaves shoulder, thigs and legs uncovered. An interesting combination if you ask me

Crafteroon · Answer

It's her choice. As long as it covers the important parts and hopefully is practical enough to not have wardrobe malfunctions, does the rest matter?

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Something like this is fine.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Home pool? Butt naked At the beach, Like a nun

yosef999 · Answer

I'm a jealous man and i have principles I won't love a girl who shows of her body for anyone and feel good about it!! because after all she's mine and if other guys can actually see her body that wouldn't make me comfortable

20yearsolder · Answer

It's totally up to her, as revealing as she wants it to be

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

My girl wears ones like the second picture. First picture is disgusting and she thinks so tooo.

ItsAnjl · Answer

I am not comfortable with revealing clothes. And I do prefer second option shown in picture

MCheetah · Answer

Two piece bikini is fine, but I think thongs and G-strings are slutty.

PerfectDark_Joe · Answer

The female figure is beautiful and can look beautiful in all sorts of things. It doesn't even necessarily have to be revealing to be sexy! Girls are just hot!

DeborahRobinson · Answer

I wear backless crop tops every day. Of course, a swimsuit will cover even less.

exitseven · Answer

I like to be able to see nipples when she comes out of the water.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I would just want my girlfriend to be comfortable with what she is wearing. That said, the less the better for me!

kinggeorge007 · Answer

I'm okay with a bikini, one piece where is not allowed nudity. If nudity allowed, nude. I'll be naked too

Diana79 · Answer

Don’t matter I don’t wanna control her. I come from background where I payed out topless.

Kabluie · Answer

it's good to mix it up when you are going swimming everyday

megabamse · Answer

It don't matter, it's to have fun in the water. Don't matter what it looks like.

bowenw · Answer

I enjoy revealing suits if she's comfortable wearing them.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Bikinis seem pretty slutty to me as they are usually skimpier than bra and panties

StudentSimon · Answer

I'm 21, over 6ft tall and I work out a lot. I always prefer wearing speed's. I realize some girls are not into speedo but it's genuinely more comfortable for me.

loveslongnails · Answer

I don't tell my girl what she can or can't wear.

SmokyOne · Answer

She can wear whatever, I'll dress to match. However much or little.

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