I would say in society and in general. Yes, you can reject anyone for anything. Rejection is always hard, you need not care what society say about your preferences (within certain margins ofc).
For you though, that would depend entierly on how lonely you'd be. To what degree can you afford to be picky? Maybe risk getting to know them to see if their personality balance that out. That is, if you want something more than a bedwarmer..
I don't think tattoos are disgusting, but you have your choice and opinion on rejecting girls with tattoos if you don't like them. I find girls either love or hate my tattoos. I have two large brightly colored Playboy bunnies pretty visible on my arms. I get looks of disgust all the time, either b/c of the tattoos, the visibility or the symbolism. The girls who love them understand that I can make a lifetime commitment
I wouldn't have said they're disgusting. They always detract from the person's appearance, tho. Similarly for many piercings that are becoming more common.
You're asking two questions: I think women with tats are hot, specially when they carry meaning (not talking about infinity symbols or lower back butterflies). It's an expression of the self on her own body, which I think should be respected as it's HER body and her own decision. I'm pretty sure women dgaf about whether you like their tats or not.
I do think it's wrong to reject someone just based on what she's "wearing". You might be missing out on an amazing person because you're judging a book by it's cover without making an effort to look beyond that. Maybe try being more open minded?
I don't have any tattoos; nor will I be getting any tattoos other then temporary tattoos. However, I prefer to not judge others that have tattoos. For example, some girls have an expression (a few words) that has meaning to them and I have seen college scholarship athletes with a small tattoo of their college mascot.
I don't think it's "gross" to have one or two, but it does look gross if people have most of their body covered in tattoos and the skin begins to take on this sort of grayish-green cast and looks extremely dirty I also hate seeing tattoos all over the face which distorts the features and looks rather menacing.
Nah that's just your preference. As long as you don't treat people badly for it it's fine. I personally love tattoos and plan on getting more pieces. I just don't like everyone's tattoo choices, but it's not my body so I don't hold on to it.
I'm sure some people would hate my choices as well.
I don't find them disgusting. But I don't necessarily am fond of big tattoos either. Small clean and minimal ones are fine for me.
Once I had a thought of getting a tattoo but then I dumped the idea after thinking of the health issues (I personally am having some tiny malfunction at the heart and even the tiniest pathogen that enters the system can make it vulnerable.)
I also have an issue with the deformation of tattoos with age. That's quite concerning too.
I will admit although they do not disgust me I do generally find them unappealing. I do not see any real purpose to them. Plus for many people ink does not age well.
I don't find them disgusting, usually no tattoos is more attractive but it's not a deal breaker to me. And no it's not wrong to reject someone because of it, you can rejected anyone for any reasons you want.
I am kind of the same way. Both feel its not good for me to be judgmental. But this really is a choice and supposed to be about their personality, not something born with so I have a hard time not. Its become very clear to me that once some one has a tat they need to buy clothing to show it off or it gets covered. It is strange the styles I have noticed for just such a reason.
Lol. No I absolutely love them. It’s not necessarily wrong to reject them for it It’s your choice, just makes you really shallow. She could be a really great person but if you wanna reject her because of some ink, then it’s your loss in the end.
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I'm sorry but they make me feel sick just looking at them. I'm sure they are still good people
You say that you hate to be judge mental and shame people but that’s literally exactly what you’re doing. People can do whatever they please with their bodies and you need to mind your damn business. Nobody cares whether or not you like tattoos so keep your stupid ass opinions to yourself.
You're right, people CAN do what they want to their bodies, but he is entitled to his opinion every bit as much as you are. I don't understand why people who have tattoos get so aggressive when defending their reasoning for them?
Its a major turnoff especially if it covered a pec/chest/sleeve/back/tummy/leg. If its small and just on the wrist or upper arm i can deal. But yea preferably no tats
What is an issue is treating people worse for having tattoos in normal day to day interactions. However if they're a deal breaker for you for a relationship it is how it is. You can reject anyone for any reason you want.
I can't help it, but I'm not going to say I like them merely because that is what is expected of me. I normally just don't say anything unless asked for my opinion of course, as you did..
It’s disgusting on disgusting/ ugly people who are unattractive….. I had the biggest crush on a guy who had tattoos. Well he always had it covered up, but he was insanely hot.
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I would say in society and in general.
Yes, you can reject anyone for anything. Rejection is always hard, you need not care what society say about your preferences (within certain margins ofc).
For you though, that would depend entierly on how lonely you'd be. To what degree can you afford to be picky? Maybe risk getting to know them to see if their personality balance that out. That is, if you want something more than a bedwarmer..
I don't think tattoos are disgusting, but you have your choice and opinion on rejecting girls with tattoos if you don't like them.
I find girls either love or hate my tattoos. I have two large brightly colored Playboy bunnies pretty visible on my arms. I get looks of disgust all the time, either b/c of the tattoos, the visibility or the symbolism.
The girls who love them understand that I can make a lifetime commitment
I wouldn't have said they're disgusting. They always detract from the person's appearance, tho. Similarly for many piercings that are becoming more common.
You're asking two questions:
I think women with tats are hot, specially when they carry meaning (not talking about infinity symbols or lower back butterflies). It's an expression of the self on her own body, which I think should be respected as it's HER body and her own decision. I'm pretty sure women dgaf about whether you like their tats or not.
I do think it's wrong to reject someone just based on what she's "wearing". You might be missing out on an amazing person because you're judging a book by it's cover without making an effort to look beyond that. Maybe try being more open minded?
I don't have any tattoos; nor will I be getting any tattoos other then temporary tattoos. However, I prefer to not judge others that have tattoos. For example, some girls have an expression (a few words) that has meaning to them and I have seen college scholarship athletes with a small tattoo of their college mascot.
I don't think it's "gross" to have one or two, but it does look gross if people have most of their body covered in tattoos and the skin begins to take on this sort of grayish-green cast and looks extremely dirty I also hate seeing tattoos all over the face which distorts the features and looks rather menacing.
Nah that's just your preference. As long as you don't treat people badly for it it's fine. I personally love tattoos and plan on getting more pieces. I just don't like everyone's tattoo choices, but it's not my body so I don't hold on to it.
I'm sure some people would hate my choices as well.
yeah, specially a lot of tattoos like this
I try not to be judgmental but aside from looking disgusting it also kinda comes to me as a red flag
I don't find them disgusting. But I don't necessarily am fond of big tattoos either. Small clean and minimal ones are fine for me.
Once I had a thought of getting a tattoo but then I dumped the idea after thinking of the health issues (I personally am having some tiny malfunction at the heart and even the tiniest pathogen that enters the system can make it vulnerable.)
I also have an issue with the deformation of tattoos with age. That's quite concerning too.
I will admit although they do not disgust me I do generally find them unappealing. I do not see any real purpose to them. Plus for many people ink does not age well.
I don't find them disgusting, usually no tattoos is more attractive but it's not a deal breaker to me.
And no it's not wrong to reject someone because of it, you can rejected anyone for any reasons you want.
Nope, but I prefer my and my bf’s skin without tattoos, I want to be the only one leaving marks on his body.
Hahah I am gonna die of a laughter :)
I am kind of the same way. Both feel its not good for me to be judgmental. But this really is a choice and supposed to be about their personality, not something born with so I have a hard time not.
Its become very clear to me that once some one has a tat they need to buy clothing to show it off or it gets covered. It is strange the styles I have noticed for just such a reason.
Lol. No I absolutely love them.
It’s not necessarily wrong to reject them for it It’s your choice, just makes you really shallow. She could be a really great person but if you wanna reject her because of some ink, then it’s your loss in the end.
I'm sorry but they make me feel sick just looking at them. I'm sure they are still good people
Artwork makes you feel sick?
Haha how interesting
You say that you hate to be judge mental and shame people but that’s literally exactly what you’re doing. People can do whatever they please with their bodies and you need to mind your damn business. Nobody cares whether or not you like tattoos so keep your stupid ass opinions to yourself.
You're right, people CAN do what they want to their bodies, but he is entitled to his opinion every bit as much as you are.
I don't understand why people who have tattoos get so aggressive when defending their reasoning for them?
Its a major turnoff especially if it covered a pec/chest/sleeve/back/tummy/leg. If its small and just on the wrist or upper arm i can deal. But yea preferably no tats
What is an issue is treating people worse for having tattoos in normal day to day interactions. However if they're a deal breaker for you for a relationship it is how it is. You can reject anyone for any reason you want.
Nobody dislikes tattoos more than I.
I can't help it, but I'm not going to say I like them merely because that is what is expected of me. I normally just don't say anything unless asked for my opinion of course, as you did..
It’s disgusting on disgusting/ ugly people who are unattractive…..
I had the biggest crush on a guy who had tattoos. Well he always had it covered up, but he was insanely hot.
I find it disgusting on beautiful women as well.
I find it HOT on HOT people
I like the random symbolic tattoos that mean something to the person. Otherwise, skin is too beautiful to be hidden in ink.