Is there anyway to boost my confidence?

[Archze0n]

Im 19, in pretty good shape, have no acne, and im working towards my dream job. Yet i have pretty low confidence and i want to know some tricks to maybe help boost it.
Any ideas?

[Guy13]

Tell jokes-not pervy ones. Make girl laugh and everything else will come undone too.

[Archze0n]

I can usually make any girl i talk to laugh. Im looking for more confidence in my look or who i am as a person.

[scarletssecret]

Yes workout everyday, have me time, and find your sexual confidence

[WhitneySnow]

Why is your confidence low?

[Archze0n]

I get told im a pretty good dude, funny, sweet and all that crap but I constantly get friend zoned and used as a therapist. Also not too fond of my appearance, but i can't really change that

[WhitneySnow]

Once you get a girlfriend your confidence will go up

[Archze0n]

Hard time getting one of those. Been single for two years. Also having one didn't really fix it. Im looking for ways to actually achieve having more confidence inmyself and not relying on someone else for it.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m not sure. I’m a naturally self-confident person, but I’m not really sure like how I do it.

[Archze0n]

What about you makes you feel confident?

[WhitneySnow]

I’m smart, I’m kind, I’m empathetic, I’m reasonably pretty, I have a few good friends

[Archze0n]

Im lacking in the friend department

[WhitneySnow]

Friends are really important for keeping your confidence up

[Archze0n]

Well most people that would say im their friend are more acquaintances in my eyes

[WhitneySnow]

I get it. I have a lot of casual friends among my classmates but only a few really close friends. But a few is all you need.

[Archze0n]

Well I can't really just manifest them out of thin air. Everyone that I know is either busy with their life or of the not so good variety

[WhitneySnow]

That sucks. I’ve been friends with most of my close friends since freshman year of high school.

[Archze0n]

I moved after i was out of highschool so i had to start fresh after school was out

[WhitneySnow]

Try and make at least one good friend. Maybe a guy at work or in school. That will really boost your confidence.

[Archze0n]

Maybe, class is out at the moment so work msy be the only place. I guess we will see

[WhitneySnow]

Good luck

[In_Trance]

Stop believing in the illusion of lack

[Archze0n]

Thats pretty deep, but I wouldn't really call it an illusion since lack is a pretty well used adjective

[JohnK123]

Run…. Get faster each time…great builder for me

[Archze0n]

Ill try it out.

[Anonymous]

Fuck girls.