What do you do when you need a confidence boost?

[bigpauly]

[PrettyPriya]

I bet you need a boost quite a lot. You see how easy you make this for me? I don't really need a boost in confidence or otherwise. I am perfectly capable of reaching things without getting a boost from someone.

I think that is what you should call your step stool. The confidence ladder. Gives you that boost of confidence and actual height. Brilliant! If I needed something really high up, I would ask my koala or @blackcupcake to get it for me.

As far as confidence goes however, not really. I am a pretty confident person. I have always been that way. I really don't know why, but I am confident with who I am, how I look and the way my life is.

I rarely get rattled like you tend to. I notice you get flustered easily just from the responses and emojis. 😒

If there is something I can do to boost your confidence, you let me know. I will even say you are super tall or something that might help you reach (literally) for the stars. 🙂

[bigpauly]

I told you I don’t need a step ladder for my new apartment!

Great for you that you’re so confident. And you know I’m not actually flustered here lol

[PrettyPriya]

I think confidence goes along with a lot of things. I am generally a very cheery, happy person. Things don't bother me, and I brush them off. I think that outgoing, happy personality has much to do with being all around confident.

[bigpauly]

That makes a lot of sense.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for the SO AI Bot!

[AddylynnNightingale]

A confidence boost... I already have confidence so to add a bit more of that I just finish a task or something that I wanted to do that day. Having free time because you did everything that you needed to do is a great booster.

Compliments help too.

Learning a new skill is one of the biggest ones in my opinion.

I don't know if liking your question helps with your confidence, but here you go.

[bigpauly]

Awww thanks

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Working out intensely (less jogging and more like sprinting) helps me a lot. It's physical and that might seem a bit meathead but it boosts even my intellectual confidence. It's like it makes me ready to conquer shit when I'm all pumped. It puts me in an uncomfortable situation and I overcome the discomfort to the point where I love feeling my lungs about to explode, and that makes me feel like I can conquer anything whether it's chess or women or an engineering puzzle.

[bigpauly]

Great that works for you. A healthy habit too

[ZXCwWRQWz]

High five! One thing I swear by is stair climbing when I'm in the worst mood. Cuz sprinting takes a lot of motivation even to star but climbing stairs doesn't. But you climb stairs even for 15 mins, say 25+ floors worth, and that's tough on most people. But you don't need that much to start climbing stairs cuz everyone does that -- it's just few who keep climbing and climbing.

[bigpauly]

Good idea!

[NathanDavis]

hmmmmmmm... I'm always confident

because I know myself quite well, and I know my capabilities and possibilities, potential and all that

if I am unsure of something or not certain, then I can confidently try for the challenge... or I can confidently say I can't or I don't know... lmao

[Blackcupcake]

cocky…

[NathanDavis]

@Blackcupcake what a bully

[Sonorous]

We talking immediate? Or something more long term?

[Emiliamazing]

I make fun of those shorter than me. Takes care of my self-esteem issues right away.

[PrettyPriya]

HAHAHAHAHA @blackcupcake

[bigpauly]

Let me guess, I’m the only one you even know shorter? 😒😂

[Emiliamazing]

@bigpauly-When I grow weary of that activity, I revel in the fact that I am the favorite parent and write thank you notes to myself 🤣

[bigpauly]

Wow 😂😂😂

[Emiliamazing]

It's much cheaper than therapy!

[PrettyPriya]

@emiliamazing It is pretty easy to make a few clicks, log on GaG and make fun of those shorter than you. All it costs is time and the only time I am worried about is having a good one. Hahaha

[Emiliamazing]

@PrettyPriya Perfect reply! This might be the most fun I've had on a Monday morning in a while. The kids were even cooperative for both of us :-). Sadly, work must begin soon.

[PrettyPriya]

@emiliamazing Glad I could entertain a bit! Have a great day!!! 🙂

[bigpauly]

@PrettyPriya 😂 what do you mean those? We all know I’m the only one shorter than you and that’s why you have to come here 😒

[Emiliamazing]

My kids are shorter than me, and I don't hold back on them either little man! Have a great rest of your Monday! Mine starts now :-)

[bigpauly]

Lmao well they’ll get you back one day! (Not that I know first hand 👀)

[Blackcupcake]

LMFAO!!!

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Oh fuck, I love it & how tall are you by the way?

[Emiliamazing]

@Static_In_The_Attic we are all taller than @bigpauly

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Is Big Pauly VERTICALLY CHALLENGED? @emiliamazing

[Static_In_The_Attic]

https://youtu.be/8bfyS-S-IJs @emiliamazing What do you think of this song?

[Blackcupcake]

I take a shower and I sing and start dancing, because once I’m alllll fresh and delicious smelling, my confidence explodes💥

[bigpauly]

Be careful dancing in the shower.

[Blackcupcake]

I’m a pro💃🎶

[bigpauly]

😱😱😱

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Usually exercise or find something I can finish. If I planned my day and I did everything I planned, that's a huge boost. Alternately, it also kills any confidence I had if I don't.

[bigpauly]

It’s probably a good way to get your mind off negative thoughts, too

[letuswaltzforthedead]

definitely, but you have to keep yourself busy at a steady pace otherwise your mind will wonder anyways

[bigpauly]

Good point!

[LavLavLuv]

i look at myself in the mirror then turn around a bit to see my thicc juicy bunny ass

[bigpauly]

Ooh damn

[dustybiker]

I listen to powerful and humble woman sing.

[Msputiton]

Remember i am who I am because this is how i was meant to be

[bigpauly]

That’s wonderful

[Msputiton]

You having a confidence issue rn?

[bigpauly]

Hmm. Maybe with women 🥺

[Msputiton]

Really? Or you messing with me

[Msputiton]

If you serious we can dm and i can see if i can help you.
What we discuss will stay private between

[bigpauly]

I’ve been struggling to get myself out there lately. Like a slump or something I don't know.

[BeMuse]

How about accomplishing something. Being competent, builds confidence. Just set a bunch of small goals and get them done.

[MCheetah]

"Confidence?" What is that? That stuff that makes tall and rich people so happy?

[jennifer_bloom]

I would write something that I'm proud of or join a poetry group.

[SpaceGalaxy]

Come on GAG, post a pic of mine and then state how ugly i think i am, feeling pity for myself, and then ask people to rate my looks under the how do i look category

[ChiTown33]

Look back at all those who tried to break me in life... and failed.🙂

[TrillXHippy]

I’m the least confident person that I know. Nothing I do or hear people say makes me any less confident

[BlurryHaze]

Watch a motivating video that stokes my confidence.

[moonpie89]

Haha I talk to random people 🤣 😅 😂

[bigpauly]

That helps? Lol

[moonpie89]

Haha almost always

[bigpauly]

Noice

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Order A Pizza!

[AsaKyo]

I go play with my cat

[Flats-Runner]

Workout and exercise

[tfan1]

I masturbate 🙂.

[Heolurt]

There's nothing I can do, my confidence is dead.