What do you do when you need a confidence boost?

bigpauly

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PrettyPriya Follow
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I bet you need a boost quite a lot. You see how easy you make this for me? I don't really need a boost in confidence or otherwise. I am perfectly capable of reaching things without getting a boost from someone.
I think that is what you should call your step stool. The confidence ladder. Gives you that boost of confidence and actual height. Brilliant! If I needed something really high up, I would ask my koala or @blackcupcake to get it for me.
As far as confidence goes however, not really. I am a pretty confident person. I have always been that way. I really don't know why, but I am confident with who I am, how I look and the way my life is.
I rarely get rattled like you tend to. I notice you get flustered easily just from the responses and emojis. 😒
If there is something I can do to boost your confidence, you let me know. I will even say you are super tall or something that might help you reach (literally) for the stars. 🙂

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- bigpauly
  
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  I told you I don’t need a step ladder for my new apartment!
  
  Great for you that you’re so confident. And you know I’m not actually flustered here lol
  
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- PrettyPriya
  
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  I think confidence goes along with a lot of things. I am generally a very cheery, happy person. Things don't bother me, and I brush them off. I think that outgoing, happy personality has much to do with being all around confident.
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  That makes a lot of sense.
  
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- PrettyPriya
  
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  Thank you for the SO AI Bot!
  
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AddylynnNightingale Follow
Xper 7 Age: 31

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A confidence boost... I already have confidence so to add a bit more of that I just finish a task or something that I wanted to do that day. Having free time because you did everything that you needed to do is a great booster.
Compliments help too.
Learning a new skill is one of the biggest ones in my opinion.
I don't know if liking your question helps with your confidence, but here you go.

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- bigpauly
  
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  Awww thanks
  
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ZXCwWRQWz Follow
Xper 6 Age: 105 , mho 56%

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Working out intensely (less jogging and more like sprinting) helps me a lot. It's physical and that might seem a bit meathead but it boosts even my intellectual confidence. It's like it makes me ready to conquer shit when I'm all pumped. It puts me in an uncomfortable situation and I overcome the discomfort to the point where I love feeling my lungs about to explode, and that makes me feel like I can conquer anything whether it's chess or women or an engineering puzzle.

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- bigpauly
  
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  Great that works for you. A healthy habit too
  
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- ZXCwWRQWz
  
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  High five! One thing I swear by is stair climbing when I'm in the worst mood. Cuz sprinting takes a lot of motivation even to star but climbing stairs doesn't. But you climb stairs even for 15 mins, say 25+ floors worth, and that's tough on most people. But you don't need that much to start climbing stairs cuz everyone does that -- it's just few who keep climbing and climbing.
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  Good idea!
  
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NathanDavis Follow
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hmmmmmmm... I'm always confident

because I know myself quite well, and I know my capabilities and possibilities, potential and all that

if I am unsure of something or not certain, then I can confidently try for the challenge... or I can confidently say I can't or I don't know... lmao

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- Blackcupcake
  
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  cocky…
  
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  @Blackcupcake what a bully
  
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Sonorous Follow
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We talking immediate? Or something more long term?

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Emiliamazing Follow
Yoda Age: 48 , mho 58%

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I make fun of those shorter than me. Takes care of my self-esteem issues right away.

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- PrettyPriya
  
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  HAHAHAHAHA @blackcupcake
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  Let me guess, I’m the only one you even know shorter? 😒😂
  
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- Emiliamazing
  
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  @bigpauly-When I grow weary of that activity, I revel in the fact that I am the favorite parent and write thank you notes to myself 🤣
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  Wow 😂😂😂
  
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- Emiliamazing
  
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  It's much cheaper than therapy!
  
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- PrettyPriya
  
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  @emiliamazing It is pretty easy to make a few clicks, log on GaG and make fun of those shorter than you. All it costs is time and the only time I am worried about is having a good one. Hahaha
  
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- Emiliamazing
  
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  @PrettyPriya Perfect reply! This might be the most fun I've had on a Monday morning in a while. The kids were even cooperative for both of us :-). Sadly, work must begin soon.
  
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- PrettyPriya
  
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  @emiliamazing Glad I could entertain a bit! Have a great day!!! 🙂
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  @PrettyPriya 😂 what do you mean those? We all know I’m the only one shorter than you and that’s why you have to come here 😒
  
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- Emiliamazing
  
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  My kids are shorter than me, and I don't hold back on them either little man! Have a great rest of your Monday! Mine starts now :-)
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  Lmao well they’ll get you back one day! (Not that I know first hand 👀)
  
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- Blackcupcake
  
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  LMFAO!!!
  
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- Static_In_The_Attic
  
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  Oh fuck, I love it & how tall are you by the way?
  
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- Emiliamazing
  
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  @Static_In_The_Attic we are all taller than @bigpauly
  
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- Static_In_The_Attic
  
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  Is Big Pauly VERTICALLY CHALLENGED? @emiliamazing
  
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- Static_In_The_Attic
  
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  https://youtu.be/8bfyS-S-IJs @emiliamazing What do you think of this song?
  
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Blackcupcake Follow
Guru Age: 25

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I take a shower and I sing and start dancing, because once I’m alllll fresh and delicious smelling, my confidence explodes💥

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- bigpauly
  
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  Be careful dancing in the shower.
  
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- Blackcupcake
  
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  I’m a pro💃🎶
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  😱😱😱
  
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letuswaltzforthedead Follow
Yoda Age: 21 , mho 58%

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Usually exercise or find something I can finish. If I planned my day and I did everything I planned, that's a huge boost. Alternately, it also kills any confidence I had if I don't.

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- bigpauly
  
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  It’s probably a good way to get your mind off negative thoughts, too
  
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- letuswaltzforthedead
  
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  definitely, but you have to keep yourself busy at a steady pace otherwise your mind will wonder anyways
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  Good point!
  
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LavLavLuv Follow
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i look at myself in the mirror then turn around a bit to see my thicc juicy bunny ass

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- bigpauly
  
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  Ooh damn
  
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dustybiker Follow
Master Age: 48 , mho 41%

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I listen to powerful and humble woman sing.

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Msputiton Follow
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Remember i am who I am because this is how i was meant to be

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- bigpauly
  
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  That’s wonderful
  
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- Msputiton
  
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  You having a confidence issue rn?
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  Hmm. Maybe with women 🥺
  
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- Msputiton
  
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  Really? Or you messing with me
  
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- Msputiton
  
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  If you serious we can dm and i can see if i can help you.
  What we discuss will stay private between
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  I’ve been struggling to get myself out there lately. Like a slump or something I don't know.
  
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BeMuse Follow
Master Age: 36 , mho 32%

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How about accomplishing something. Being competent, builds confidence. Just set a bunch of small goals and get them done.

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MCheetah Follow
Master Age: 39 , mho 45%

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"Confidence?" What is that? That stuff that makes tall and rich people so happy?

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jennifer_bloom Follow
Master Age: 41 , mho 65%

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I would write something that I'm proud of or join a poetry group.

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SpaceGalaxy Follow
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Come on GAG, post a pic of mine and then state how ugly i think i am, feeling pity for myself, and then ask people to rate my looks under the how do i look category

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ChiTown33 Follow
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Look back at all those who tried to break me in life... and failed.🙂

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TrillXHippy Follow
Yoda Age: 31

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I’m the least confident person that I know. Nothing I do or hear people say makes me any less confident

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BlurryHaze Follow
Xper 4 Age: 24

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Watch a motivating video that stokes my confidence.

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moonpie89 Follow
Master Age: 32

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Haha I talk to random people 🤣 😅 😂

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- bigpauly
  
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  That helps? Lol
  
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- moonpie89
  
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  Haha almost always
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  Noice
  
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Static_In_The_Attic Follow
Master Age: 44 , mho 40%

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Order A Pizza!

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AsaKyo Follow
Yoda Age: 24

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I go play with my cat

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Flats-Runner Follow
Xper 5 Age: 56

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Workout and exercise

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tfan1 Follow
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I masturbate 🙂.

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Xper 6 Age: 39

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There's nothing I can do, my confidence is dead.

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